<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post8737436189082270599..comments</id><updated>2012-02-14T07:35:43.421-06:00</updated><category term='It&apos;s Texas Ya&apos;ll'/><category term='Give a Brother a Break'/><category term='Social Media'/><category term='Bougie Book Review'/><category term='Double Standards 2'/><category term='Question for the Ladies Week'/><category term='Relationships'/><category term='Ask a Bougie Chick'/><category term='Shout Out'/><category term='Bougie WorkTales'/><category term='BougieFamily'/><category term='Black History Month'/><category term='no post day on BnB'/><category term='Bougie Chicks dig sports too'/><category term='Post-Racial?'/><category term='General Bouge'/><category term='Obamaliciousness vs. the other 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term='Is it wrong?'/><category term='Fellas'/><category term='No Shiggity'/><category term='Education'/><category term='Disgrace to Any Race'/><category term='Deep sigh of the week'/><category term='TapBack'/><category term='How Bougie is THIS?'/><category term='He Said/She Said'/><category term='What Part of the Game?'/><category term='bougie bachelor chronicles'/><category term='Friendship'/><category term='Ladies'/><category term='Bougie Culture'/><category term='Just do better'/><category term='Question for the Fellas Week 2'/><category term='open mic'/><category term='Healthcare'/><category term='Blogiversary'/><category term='Politics'/><category term='Step Yo Game Up'/><category term='Mainstream Media'/><category term='Reality Check'/><category term='WWYD?'/><category term='Tuesday Top Two'/><category term='BnB Radio Network'/><category term='Michele Grant'/><category term='Go Girl'/><category term='Where in the world is OneChele?'/><category term='HR Minute'/><category term='Throwback Thursday'/><category term='Online Dating'/><category term='Music'/><category term='Memory lane'/><category term='WBFDD'/><category term='Bougie Recipe Swap'/><category term='WBPD'/><category term='I Love Black Men'/><category term='Double Standards'/><category term='Short'/><category term='Ready'/><category term='Bougie News Round-Up'/><category term='RIP'/><category term='5 on 5'/><category term='Bougie TV Watch'/><category term='Movie Week'/><category term='Wall Street'/><category term='Smart Guest Post Week'/><category term='Search for Mr. Good-Bougie'/><category term='Sports'/><category term='BougieLand Live'/><title type='text'>Comments on BougieLand: I shouldn’t have to write this post: Bougie Etique...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/feeds/8737436189082270599/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>One Chele</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/109555230009180340423</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-jVvh7dT07wM/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAECY/7DFNrji_3V0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>30</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1801203479857834846</id><published>2010-09-15T19:42:00.583-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:42:00.583-05:00</updated><title type='text'>There was a time when I freaked out when I knew I ...</title><content type='html'>There was a time when I freaked out when I knew I would miss an episode of Making the Band. (back in the walking miles for cheesecake days). I fell off when they put everyone in the house together. UGH AWFUL! I&amp;#39;m basically OVER the reality TVshows. Don&amp;#39;t let me slip up &amp;amp; not be able to find the remote while I Wanna Work For Diddy is on. LOL They roped me in w/ that one last week. But the Bad Girls. Ahn ahn, No Can Do! IDK if it&amp;#39;s a sign of age/wisdom or what! Although Diddy &amp;amp; I are close in age. I&amp;#39;ve had it!&lt;br /&gt;Love the song your brother created. Wish I could hear the melody. LOL Thanks for sharing! No excuse for not respecting the gray hair. No home training!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1801203479857834846'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1801203479857834846'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597720583#c1801203479857834846' title=''/><author><name>1xellus1</name><uri>http://1xellus1.blogspot.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-4523143738377503651</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:42.993-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:42.993-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey now, if I said something like that - my Bougie...</title><content type='html'>Hey now, if I said something like that - my BougiePass gets suspended!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/4523143738377503651'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/4523143738377503651'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597462993#c4523143738377503651' title=''/><author><name>Steve</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-255832581816842669</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:41.383-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:41.383-05:00</updated><title type='text'>My job made every mid-level and up manager go to a...</title><content type='html'>My job made every mid-level and up manager go to a business etiquette week-long training session. You wouldn&amp;#39;t believe (well, yes you would) how many people were clueless. The section on topics that are better off not being discussed at work shut so many of them down, I had to bite my tongue. New visitor, love it!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/255832581816842669'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/255832581816842669'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597461383#c255832581816842669' title=''/><author><name>Cassie</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-4180235697723177687</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:38.519-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:38.519-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Welcome and wow, interesting correlation.</title><content type='html'>Welcome and wow, interesting correlation.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/4180235697723177687'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/4180235697723177687'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597458519#c4180235697723177687' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-9015260622281302836</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:38.174-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:38.174-05:00</updated><title type='text'>New to the blog - nice. I would have to say that w...</title><content type='html'>New to the blog - nice. I would have to say that with the exception of infants and toddlers NO one is pulling off sloppy table game. It&amp;#39;s hard to get past. Not to be graphic but you do have to stop and think, is that how she puts things in her mouth?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/9015260622281302836'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/9015260622281302836'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597458174#c9015260622281302836' title=''/><author><name>Jason P</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-7389624085207641207</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:35.427-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:35.427-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Girl, let me holla at you for that curriculum. I t...</title><content type='html'>Girl, let me holla at you for that curriculum. I teach a class of hooligans.. I&amp;#39;m sorry, I mean young kids at my church and I&amp;#39;m about to rip my hair out.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/7389624085207641207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/7389624085207641207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597455427#c7389624085207641207' title=''/><author><name>Sasha Stiletto</name><uri>http://twitter.com/SashanStilettos</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8295465299970925865</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:30.187-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:30.187-05:00</updated><title type='text'>No doubt! They&amp;#39;re probably even cheaper to mak...</title><content type='html'>No doubt! They&amp;#39;re probably even cheaper to make.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/8295465299970925865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/8295465299970925865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597450187#c8295465299970925865' title=''/><author><name>RiPPa</name><uri>http://www.rippdemup.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1160967469500250992</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:29.325-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:29.325-05:00</updated><title type='text'>No doubt! If it wasn&amp;#39;t for Bush, there&amp;#39;s b...</title><content type='html'>No doubt! If it wasn&amp;#39;t for Bush, there&amp;#39;s be no Real Housewives of Atlanta.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;LOL</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1160967469500250992'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1160967469500250992'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597449325#c1160967469500250992' title=''/><author><name>RiPPa</name><uri>http://www.rippdemup.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-763454125603655857</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:27.963-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:27.963-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Trust me, a man sloshing food and sucking his teet...</title><content type='html'>Trust me, a man sloshing food and sucking his teeth is similarly unattractive.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/763454125603655857'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/763454125603655857'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597447963#c763454125603655857' title=''/><author><name>Sweet N Tart</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3616604618353985149</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:27.610-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:27.610-05:00</updated><title type='text'>We actually teach a class at my church called Youn...</title><content type='html'>We actually teach a class at my church called Young Ladies Lessons for Living. Then we realized that some older women missed this so we did another one called Ladies Lessons for Life and Love. THEN we realized that it made no sense to have the females polished up and the men still acting any old kinda way so we started a Men and Boys class too. In my day, the things we teach came from home. Now home training needs to be provided by whoever can step in.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3616604618353985149'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3616604618353985149'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597447610#c3616604618353985149' title=''/><author><name>BB Waite</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8083536396174570862</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:25.023-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:25.023-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry - I have to co-sign with Man on this one. A ...</title><content type='html'>Sorry - I have to co-sign with Man on this one. A woman with deplorable eating habits? I&amp;#39;m done.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/8083536396174570862'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/8083536396174570862'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597445023#c8083536396174570862' title=''/><author><name>derek love</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1972764990307698350</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:23.734-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:23.734-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Very well said but very sad!</title><content type='html'>Very well said but very sad!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1972764990307698350'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1972764990307698350'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597443734#c1972764990307698350' title=''/><author><name>All Honey</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-747610644822138156</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:22.743-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:22.743-05:00</updated><title type='text'>And clearly cheap to produce talk shows too, every...</title><content type='html'>And clearly cheap to produce talk shows too, everybody&amp;#39;s got one. BAY-BAY!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/747610644822138156'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/747610644822138156'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597442743#c747610644822138156' title=''/><author><name>MochaMuffin</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-4391425193103064002</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:20.940-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:20.940-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It&amp;#39;s a helluva lot cheaper to produce a Realit...</title><content type='html'>It&amp;#39;s a helluva lot cheaper to produce a Reality Show than it is for scripted programming. Blame it on the economy, but because of it &amp;quot;certain females&amp;quot; are employed.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/4391425193103064002'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/4391425193103064002'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597440940#c4391425193103064002' title=''/><author><name>RiPPa</name><uri>http://www.rippdemup.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-924947850717456104</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:19.142-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:19.142-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow, I had not heard that one before.</title><content type='html'>Wow, I had not heard that one before.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/924947850717456104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/924947850717456104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597439142#c924947850717456104' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3946606704527790293</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:18.797-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:18.797-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Right now the way the world works is that people t...</title><content type='html'>Right now the way the world works is that people tear each other down instead of build each other up. You see it in news, pop culture, everywhere. Very unfortunate because it generates this cycle where people have less self-esteem and self-respect and therefore have none to spare for anybody else.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3946606704527790293'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3946606704527790293'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597438797#c3946606704527790293' title=''/><author><name>JaymeC</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-984509267620601476</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:18.405-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:18.405-05:00</updated><title type='text'>That&amp;#39;s we learn though. She will never forget ...</title><content type='html'>That&amp;#39;s we learn though. She will never forget that lesson.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/984509267620601476'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/984509267620601476'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597438405#c984509267620601476' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-6249869407562311166</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:17.982-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:17.982-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I think it&amp;#39;s far more concerning and sexist th...</title><content type='html'>I think it&amp;#39;s far more concerning and sexist that you have a &amp;quot;cut pile&amp;quot; - classy</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/6249869407562311166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/6249869407562311166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597437982#c6249869407562311166' title=''/><author><name>Andrea M</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-700025385408796082</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:17.163-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:17.163-05:00</updated><title type='text'>So it makes me wonder what kind of old folks these...</title><content type='html'>So it makes me wonder what kind of old folks these chillens will be?! Scary...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/700025385408796082'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/700025385408796082'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597437163#c700025385408796082' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1830105249653793411</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:16.688-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:16.688-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is going to sound sexist but my number one th...</title><content type='html'>This is going to sound sexist but my number one thing I hate about a woman is if she has terrible manners, especially table. That will get a girl sent to the cut pile with no exemptions. Hate that</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1830105249653793411'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/1830105249653793411'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597436688#c1830105249653793411' title=''/><author><name>Man's World</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3475653637286221384</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:15.867-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:15.867-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It is always amazing to me when people think they ...</title><content type='html'>It is always amazing to me when people think they will never be in someone else&amp;#39;s shoes and have no empathy. I hope I get to be a senior citizen. Just so I can wear out young folks&amp;#39; nerves... ha!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3475653637286221384'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3475653637286221384'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597435867#c3475653637286221384' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5820262453644366481</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:15.315-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:15.315-05:00</updated><title type='text'>LMAO at the picture! My sister and I  had a table ...</title><content type='html'>LMAO at the picture! My sister and I  had a table manners song too, not as catchy as yours. When (if) I have kids they will know how to act or suffer the wrath!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/5820262453644366481'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/5820262453644366481'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597435315#c5820262453644366481' title=''/><author><name>Violet Rose</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5607115351932002999</id><published>2010-09-15T19:36:57.919-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:36:57.919-05:00</updated><title type='text'>@ situation #2, on the same note, when an elder is...</title><content type='html'>@ situation #2, on the same note, when an elder is the recipient of respect please don&amp;#39;t disrespect the person showing you your &amp;quot;due&amp;quot; respect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;case in point, i was walking into a store and in the reflection i saw an elderly black lady behind me.  i stepped back and held the door open for her.  as she walked through the door, i said something like hello or good afternoon.  don&amp;#39;t you know she looked me dead in my face and said women don&amp;#39;t hold the door for other women.  i said, yes ma&amp;#39;am but i have manners and proceeded to hold the door for the lady walking behind her.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/5607115351932002999'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/5607115351932002999'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597417919#c5607115351932002999' title=''/><author><name>Foxy Brown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3565554790027352963</id><published>2010-09-15T19:36:49.994-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:36:49.994-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I know it sounds trite but, most don&amp;#39;t respect...</title><content type='html'>I know it sounds trite but, most don&amp;#39;t respect others because they have no respect for themselves.&lt;br /&gt;I always have to remind my young cousins of this when we are out inpublic. They are now to the point of opening doors, giving up seats and exchanging niceties for and with perfect strangers.&lt;br /&gt;They are learning that hood rules don&amp;#39;t translate to middle class (or better) rules.&lt;br /&gt;IMO - No one has taken the time to correct poor behavior.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3565554790027352963'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/3565554790027352963'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597409994#c3565554790027352963' title=''/><author><name>uglyblackjohn</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-6985683582259903187</id><published>2010-09-15T19:36:47.657-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:36:47.657-05:00</updated><title type='text'>My daughter mouthed off to her grandmother this we...</title><content type='html'>My daughter mouthed off to her grandmother this weekend and I beat her like she stole something. Yeah I did. When she finished wailing I explained how we treat our elders. She gave me the big watery eyes and said she&amp;#39;s never be mean to grandma or anyone who looked like her again.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/6985683582259903187'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/8737436189082270599/comments/default/6985683582259903187'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html?showComment=1284597407657#c6985683582259903187' title=''/><author><name>datdudeincali</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/11/i-shouldnt-have-to-write-this-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8737436189082270599' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/8737436189082270599' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry></feed>
