tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post4290290022221735446..comments2011-08-23T11:37:39.435-05:00One Chelehttps://profiles.google.com/109555230009180340423noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5544529254758873092009-09-22T23:16:03.000-05:002009-09-22T23:16:03.000-05:00Yeah ya did, but since you helped to get it started, you&#39;re forgiven! We&#39;ll have to do it again!OneChelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-79443615503078759612009-09-22T23:06:52.000-05:002009-09-22T23:06:52.000-05:00Dang, I missed the party.AverageBronoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3022996572885711482009-09-22T18:20:24.000-05:002009-09-22T18:20:24.000-05:00Good one!Guestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-6093398643019899002009-09-22T17:47:38.000-05:002009-09-22T17:47:38.000-05:00Quick thanks for all the comments and to our guest posters today!OneChelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-17253556926678398342009-09-22T16:39:54.000-05:002009-09-22T16:39:54.000-05:00Yes, the comments are tripping - my third try to put my two cents in :) These aggressive women with the cyber-stalking/flirting whatever - it&#39;s crazy. My first clue is when someone has a half naked avatar - what&#39;s up with that? I have an on again- off again relationship, right now it&#39;s off because he&#39;s letting his &quot;online friends&quot; get too familiar and take up too much time. I have a problem with that! After reading this, I feel kinda validated!BB Waitenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-22473214184429686832009-09-22T16:15:01.715-05:002009-09-22T16:15:01.715-05:00First time here, ya&#39;ll come real with it. Look marriage is no joke. If you get in and stay in, things ain&#39;t always rosy. So once you start unraveling the intimacy by letting arguments linger, flirting with other dudes/chicks, sleeping apart - it&#39;s a slippery slope to divorce court.Risanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-33416957703756635032009-09-22T15:59:36.903-05:002009-09-22T15:59:36.903-05:00Sorry for all the commenting drama today. Thanks for hanging in!OneChelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12973077026088291338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-75897673935852759652009-09-22T14:11:46.000-05:002009-09-22T14:11:46.000-05:00I love relationship week. Great format, cool insight. And of course, now you&#39;ve given me more new blogs to follow! Bailey Quincynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-34301719160657455062009-09-22T14:06:03.000-05:002009-09-22T14:06:03.000-05:00Thanks, my email address is up top.Jayme Cnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-39344990286193608042009-09-22T13:19:58.145-05:002009-09-22T13:19:58.145-05:00LOVE this blog, just found you. Co-sign with ShawnQ, I made the hubby read. I think he walks a fine line with the cyber-chicks getting a little too familiar.Laceynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-60140848417225931912009-09-22T12:15:02.176-05:002009-09-22T12:15:02.176-05:00Hello, glad people enjoyed the post. I can be emailed at JaymeC09@yahoo.comJaymeCnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-40867399993163567902009-09-22T11:10:41.988-05:002009-09-22T11:10:41.988-05:00That not going to bed mad thing jacked up too many nights. ladies just want to keep talking it out when I just wanna sleep. most times i just let them win so i can restDatDudeinCalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05518410763062115022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-91389358997183673602009-09-22T11:08:31.977-05:002009-09-22T11:08:31.977-05:00Imma need JaymeC&#39;s info tho? &quot;You can&#39;t regulate anger&quot; - dead on.KaseyLovelynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-37574535161947584232009-09-22T10:59:56.923-05:002009-09-22T10:59:56.923-05:00Great read. Love the different perspectives on the issue. As far as &quot;don&#39;t go to bed angry&quot; I agree in a modified way. If it the situation is going to have my mind wondering all night, we need to talk. I really try to choose my battles when it comes to my relationship. <br /><br />The best had to be &quot;relationships are a living thing.&quot; WOW Never really thought of it that way, but it makes perfect sense! This will def change the way I see my relationship.Tiffany Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14523018361485914661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-58938919039274157762009-09-22T10:57:45.274-05:002009-09-22T10:57:45.274-05:00OneChele! With the diverse guest post today, okay - I see you. AB in da house. <br /><br />My marriage broke up due to the sleeping apart. It started off as a scheduling thing, my work late, she working early and then it seemed like neither of us cared enough to put it back together. That wake up in the morning and look each other in the face vibe is real.SpitGameSpeakTruthnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-25527635673844416352009-09-22T10:40:18.137-05:002009-09-22T10:40:18.137-05:00LMAO at Gent and Lady with the &quot;standing over them with a knife&quot;. Too funny. Bump a therapist and go straight to restraining order on that oneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-73067099928059771432009-09-22T10:31:50.736-05:002009-09-22T10:31:50.736-05:00Serial lurker both here and at AB&#39;s spot. Great post. Marriage is no cake walk and when people come in with these preformed myths and beliefs, it&#39;s that much harder.Stevie NoWondernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-82371401364870602962009-09-22T10:27:42.910-05:002009-09-22T10:27:42.910-05:00I like the Gent and lady saying casual glance. The ex had a way of getting his open-mouth gawk on that was not good and ultimately led to him going after other woman and me putting his sh! on the back porch. Do you have email info on JaymeC?OnlyMenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-4224692874238987592009-09-22T10:23:54.932-05:002009-09-22T10:23:54.932-05:00AB in the house. LOL at the cybergroupies. With G-Girl, where does the fun chat and FB/Tweet cross the line.Jane Knows Janenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-41982468763881361402009-09-22T10:22:57.859-05:002009-09-22T10:22:57.859-05:00This friday will make 5 years of marriage for me and my hubby. These 5 years have been a roller coaster to say the least. I firmly believe in not letting the sun go down on your wrath and have lived it for the past 5 years, somedays I was tired from staying up until 3-4 in the morning trying to work things out and sometimes it just seemed futile. As time has progressed I&#39;ve come to learn the difference between anger and disagreements, if I don&#39;t feel like I&#39;m going to stab him in his sleep then it is safe to say I&#39;m not that mad and we can deal with it in the morning. <br />When it comes to sleeping seperately and the intimacy that sleeping together brings I can definitely agree, that sleeping together is important. My husband is in and out of the hospital and sometimes the longer he is away I can see the distance growing. I remeber for a long time bracing myself to be a widow,so I got comfortable with sleeping alone and going out alone and raising my kids alone because I wanted to be ready for the worse, and now I can see how that has damaged our relationship and changed my perception of him and us. <br />Flirting is a no-no which I think most of us learn about one way or another. If you aren&#39;t getting the attention that you think you deserve, pay it to yourself, but don&#39;t try to get it elsewhere, because then things get sticky and Lord knows sticky is hard to clean up.Lady4Christnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-66562268279371448412009-09-22T10:10:48.558-05:002009-09-22T10:10:48.558-05:00Hey- AverageBro on BnB! Cool. I made my husband get up and read this early this morning. I highlighted AB&#39;s section: Not every discussion ends with makeup nookie!!!ShawnQnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8138875285137421842009-09-22T10:03:45.059-05:002009-09-22T10:03:45.059-05:00I like that four day/two week rule.BlackestBerrynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-21023484972999374982009-09-22T10:02:03.238-05:002009-09-22T10:02:03.238-05:00first time on the site - love it! Hmm, I&#39;m going to need more definition of cyber-flirting when it crosses the line. Just tweeting a little sexy can&#39;t be too bad?G-Girl2060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-72981280277907516502009-09-22T09:59:41.388-05:002009-09-22T09:59:41.388-05:00Okay, definitely a who knew? Thanks for the Guest Posters, OneCheleKaylanoreply@blogger.com