tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post3570674046598768957..comments2009-10-08T23:33:50.703-05:00OneChelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12973077026088291338onechele@gmail.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-46737301788260563172009-10-08T23:33:45.000-05:002009-10-08T23:33:45.000-05:00When I was 19 or 20, I had a 50 year old French woman who&#39;d always take me out and buy me things.<br />She was a very attractive woman but she was too old to have kids.<br />(That, and she was married. I don&#39;t do married.)<br />I think this may be the difference.<br /> Young man + old woman = no kids.<br />Old man + young woman (+viagra) = kids.uglyblackjohnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-25875430718916946762009-10-08T15:11:06.000-05:002009-10-08T15:11:06.000-05:00That&#39;s definitely it. I never seen hot, younger chicks with a broke older man. I&#39;ve also never seen a hot older women with an ugly, younger man. It&#39;s like the French film &#39;Priceless&#39;.<br />I say date whomever you like. But if your partner is really your sugar daddy/mommy, then keep it real. Call it what it is.<br />The whole couger term is so played out now. Can we please evolve and move on?BlackBettynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3811570452479283982009-10-07T22:39:14.000-05:002009-10-07T22:39:14.000-05:00First.  Great post!<br /><br />I have to say, those images in my head were not the most exciting...<br /><br />I didn&#39;t know there were specifics to these terms lol, and I guess I am out of the loop because I wasn&#39;t even aware of the term silver foxes!  Like most instances though, double standards exists so much in gender relations that it is not even questioned in a court of law (reference to your &quot;shades on&quot; judge in the story)<br /><br />I have to agree that Demi has kept herself well maintained.  Mariah...I mean does she look like she aged?  Nooo...but do I say OOO Mariah like I said when Dream Lover came out?  Maybe yes, but only right before I avert my eyes or flip the channel.  I don&#39;t know what it is about her right now, but she has grown less appealing to me through the years.<br /><br />As far as age...I can&#39;t really agree on the &quot;to each his/her own&quot; principle, because I just feel like at a certain point, the age gap is just too silly to believe that you can literally be from two different generations, and yet have the same tastes, the same compatibilities, the physical attractions, and the same thoughts on intimacy towards one another.  I mean i just can&#39;t see it when the one person is like 60 and the other person is like 22.SpkTruth2Pwrnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-83018685985638073942009-10-07T18:25:17.000-05:002009-10-07T18:25:17.000-05:00I don&#39;t know OneChele, I&#39;d much rather see Nick and Mariah or Demi and Ashton on the beach than Larry and Donald in swim trunks. Aesthetically, I&#39;m gonna say - go Cougars, go!Bailey Qnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-77702198768974957042009-10-07T15:01:24.000-05:002009-10-07T15:01:24.000-05:00Yes, StepMommy borrowing your clothes might have been a little over the topOneChelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-73970242838175527642009-10-07T14:57:55.000-05:002009-10-07T14:57:55.000-05:00Alright then, I don&#39;t hate on the cradle-snatchers. If they like it, I love it. But I will agree with you that men seem to get away with it as &quot;accepted behavior&quot; while women are still judged.Kikinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-60251965777335057192009-10-07T14:14:25.000-05:002009-10-07T14:14:25.000-05:00Agree! If I gotta explain the inside of the inside joke about gumby hair cuts it aint gonna work!!Tiffany Nicolenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-21627619675649625402009-10-07T13:57:41.000-05:002009-10-07T13:57:41.000-05:00Did you peek into my world? My ex and I split, he picked up a 20-year old co-ed and I went with a 27 year old buppie type. We had the same disastrous vacation but things turned out okay for me, no so much for him. The 20-year old bailed on him mid-vacation, last seen with the scuba guy... (laughs evilly)Like Lenanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-23988242970484470392009-10-07T12:34:14.000-05:002009-10-07T12:34:14.000-05:00LOL at the Crypt Keeper!OneChelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-24706072328693819462009-10-07T12:33:29.000-05:002009-10-07T12:33:29.000-05:00Yep, I think that&#39;s pretty much the rule.OneChelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-50722270269842591322009-10-07T12:30:44.000-05:002009-10-07T12:30:44.000-05:00You make an excellent point: Demi and Mariah look great, Larry and Donald - not so much. So is that what is is, to be a cougar you have to have great looks, great body, to be a fox you have to have money?MochaMuffinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-6640036254972240712009-10-07T12:19:27.000-05:002009-10-07T12:19:27.000-05:00I&#39;m with Dat Dude, it doesn&#39;t bug me to see an older woman with a younger men but that Larry King picture makes me cringe. I&#39;ll do better.SBChitownChicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-32987824064880060612009-10-07T12:10:58.000-05:002009-10-07T12:10:58.000-05:00After my Mom and Dad divorced, he married a woman two years younger than me. That caused me issues. She wanted us to be pals AND she borrowed my clothes. As you say, OneChele - ew, ick! they got divorced two years later and she get ridic alimony now more than 3x what my mom gets. No justice, no peace!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-52801432025392142842009-10-07T11:46:23.000-05:002009-10-07T11:46:23.000-05:00I ain&#39;t stirring nuthin up today but I&#39;m bitin my tongue on Eye Candy and Queen. Ya&#39;ll can dress it up if ya like. Where were all the hot cougars when I was trying to get on the hustle? I see ya tho, do your thangThink Like Rileynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1029056247310019602009-10-07T11:38:59.000-05:002009-10-07T11:38:59.000-05:00Also- LOL at R.Kelly and Aaliyah! Oh - and I&#39;m enjoying Double Standards Week - how do you come up with this stuff?Eye Candynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-71392215576389850152009-10-07T11:37:27.000-05:002009-10-07T11:37:27.000-05:00Go head and judge, I was with a much older guy all through college and grad school, he paid the bills. We both knew what time it was.Eye Candynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-64688756185336861622009-10-07T11:23:02.000-05:002009-10-07T11:23:02.000-05:00I gotta draw a line, I&#39;ll only go eight years higher or eight years younger, after that it&#39;s generational. daisynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-45297676664661637212009-10-07T11:19:22.000-05:002009-10-07T11:19:22.000-05:00My philosophy, date who you pull. If you got it like that, to be a 60-year old dude with 25 year olds still down, rock it. If you are a 45 year old chick and the young bucks still sniffing around, why not?Troynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-50961165893254562212009-10-07T11:10:11.000-05:002009-10-07T11:10:11.000-05:00Well Ladies, maybe we can form a Bougie Cougar Club? Next hot reality series for Bravo!OneChelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-46826312906649778202009-10-07T11:07:49.000-05:002009-10-07T11:07:49.000-05:00I&#39;m not over 40 but I&#39;m definitely in the puma-cougar category. I&#39;m dating guy 5 - 8 years younger. For some reason, that&#39;s what I&#39;m attracting these days. I can&#39;t be mad about it.AndreaMnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-85682892320886733282009-10-07T11:05:16.000-05:002009-10-07T11:05:16.000-05:00Well thought I was a cougar. I only have 5 years on my CS. I still feel cougarish.glamah@cococooksnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-30209634249864582582009-10-07T11:01:36.000-05:002009-10-07T11:01:36.000-05:00I remember a year or so ago when I was dating this younger guy and had to explain about Rodney King. A friend of mine was like, girl that&#39;s not young, that&#39;s uninformed! At any rate, I realized when you go too young you have to explain your references. Not worth it!CareyinCaramelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-75212383583026246442009-10-07T10:49:32.000-05:002009-10-07T10:49:32.000-05:00There is def a double standard with this issue. Older men are celbrated when they catch a PYT, Women on the other hand, she outta be ashamed of dating a young cat. Too each its own. Im not fond of the dating any guy over five years older than me....too much of a generation gap. We won&#39;t even remember the same cartoons! If it&#39;s love, do you...it&#39;s just not for me!Tiffany Nicolenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-73049597982719830132009-10-07T10:18:49.000-05:002009-10-07T10:18:49.000-05:00I&#39;m sad (or happy) to say I&#39;m old enough to have been that sugar baby and cougar (hate the term though). And I&#39;ll fess up - sometimes it&#39;s not about the love (you know this). Sometimes it&#39;s more of an arranged agreement than a relationship. What does that make me? Resourceful.QueenofMenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-69894477350171059362009-10-07T10:09:04.000-05:002009-10-07T10:09:04.000-05:00My double standard is reversed on this one, if there are any older babes out there holding it down like Halle, Mariah and Demi - I&#39;m down to be that cub. Just call me Nick and pay my rentDatdudeinCalinoreply@blogger.com