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I just came across a mixed-message man. Kept blami...

2010-09-15T19:43:54.912-05:00

I just came across a mixed-message man. Kept blaming his crazy moods on being a Gemini. Actually, now that I think about it, there was a healthy dose of militant. I just can't hang.
My favorite to avoid is the braggart. Oh I spent this much on that. I just bought this. Blah freakin blah. No one cares.

While I know there are instances where that happen...

2010-09-15T19:43:37.743-05:00

While I know there are instances where that happens, some dudes have a bad habit of skewing what they say just so...

They know they're dealing with a female who'll hear what she wants and it won't take much for them to continue to get what they want so they play that game.

There are some women who will hear a man say "I don't want to be with you ever" and read that as "he just needs more time..." but there are men out there who know good and well he doesn't want to be with a woman and instead of saying that will say "I don't know if now is a good time for us..." which we ALL know implies that maybe later would be good and we know that some women will just sorta hang around waiting on the "maybe later" to show up, continuing to be the "whatever he needs right now" in his life. No bueno.

Cosign, mkthxbi!

2010-09-15T19:43:37.337-05:00

Cosign, mkthxbi!

Oh - the Bromance dudes, "gotta hang with my ...

2010-09-15T19:43:36.908-05:00

Oh - the Bromance dudes, "gotta hang with my boys," Entourage-wanna-bes... I could write a book. Hmm, maybe I should!

Wow - great list! I know one of each of these (som...

2010-09-15T19:43:24.694-05:00

Wow - great list! I know one of each of these (some are combination). Not a good look.

So which would you say are worse? The 5 women from...

2010-09-15T19:42:40.964-05:00

So which would you say are worse? The 5 women from Friday's post or these 5 men? Just curious

great post..reminds me of my "true2me's m...

2010-09-15T19:42:11.113-05:00

great post..reminds me of my "true2me's men to avoid" lol ...I LOVE IT

oh and hey chele :)

Good one! Bruh can afford Four Seasons but is post...

2010-09-15T19:41:23.222-05:00

Good one! Bruh can afford Four Seasons but is posted up at the "by the hour" no-tell motel. Drives a Benz but parks it WAY far away from the spot cuz he's worried about someone hitting it. Takes change for a five out of the collection plate? Calculates 10% teip (if that much) to the penny - yep, he's a pain too.

If you'd always rather spend time with your bo...

2010-09-15T19:40:36.611-05:00

If you'd always rather spend time with your boys than your girlfriend, that's a total problem.

First off - Ouch! Shots fired! I've been milit...

2010-09-15T19:40:33.669-05:00

First off - Ouch! Shots fired! I've been militant X from time to time - there's usually a reason for this kind of anger.

Okay, in the spirit of fairness - I have one for y...

2010-09-15T19:40:28.741-05:00

Okay, in the spirit of fairness - I have one for you. Cheap for no reason dude. Never picks up the tab, always bitching about the price of stuff - and most of the time, they can afford it, just cheap as hell. One of my boys is like this - he hates to pay for anything! drives me crazy so I'm sure his dates aren't feeling it.

I've got a cross between the Baby Mama Drama a...

2010-09-15T19:40:21.277-05:00

I've got a cross between the Baby Mama Drama and Metro Mirror dude - deadly combination. Like ASmith says below, you can't fix the BM Drama, you just have to put up with it. His mirror game though... is about to get him bounced. Great post to kick off the day with!

YES! That's exactly it -- the ones who need an...

2010-09-15T19:40:09.695-05:00

YES! That's exactly it -- the ones who need an Entourage. ::shudder:: No thanks.

Obvi I support the book idea. Please and thanks.

yes ma'am. hangs head

2010-09-15T19:40:07.196-05:00

yes ma'am. *hangs head*

My last relationship went kaput over the cheating....

2010-09-15T19:40:00.972-05:00

My last relationship went kaput over the cheating. I found out dude was flagrant with it. Why even be in a relationship then?

Because some men are just self pieces of shiggity ...

2010-09-15T19:39:58.205-05:00

Because some men are just self pieces of shiggity who string women along while they decide what they want.

Ooo! What about mama's boy? I'm side-eyein...

2010-09-15T19:39:56.464-05:00

Ooo! What about mama's boy? I'm side-eyeing a Mixed Message Mama's Boy right now! Umm. and Amen.

Come on now, you want a fella to have some boys.

2010-09-15T19:39:55.700-05:00

Come on now, you want a fella to have some boys.

Good one. I don't do mama's boys cause I d...

2010-09-15T19:39:48.722-05:00

Good one. I don't do mama's boys cause I don't compete with mamas. Please and thanks.

It's a tie between Cheaty McC and Mixed-Messag...

2010-09-15T19:39:08.667-05:00

It's a tie between Cheaty McC and Mixed-Message man.

By the way, Steve - just because you start a state...

2010-09-15T19:38:56.318-05:00

By the way, Steve - just because you start a statement "with all due respect" - doesn't absolve you for what comes after ;-)

Okay, you may have us on a few of these. Out of al...

2010-09-15T19:38:35.036-05:00

Okay, you may have us on a few of these. Out of all of these, which do you hate the most?

A little harsh but okay. Point is - a man should j...

2010-09-15T19:37:34.770-05:00

A little harsh but okay. Point is - a man should just speak truth. Then NO one is confused.

Good point.

2010-09-15T19:37:14.182-05:00

Good point.

Ladies, with all due respect - has it ever occurre...

2010-09-15T19:37:12.896-05:00

Ladies, with all due respect - has it ever occurred to you that the Mixed Messages are more about you than the man. Maybe you're hearing what you want to hear? Maybe he THOUGHT you were it and he changed his mind.