<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post1394723220431996359..comments</id><updated>2010-09-15T19:43:36.569-05:00</updated><category term='It&apos;s Texas Ya&apos;ll'/><category term='Give a Brother a Break'/><category term='Social Media'/><category term='Bougie Book Review'/><category term='Double Standards 2'/><category term='Question for the Ladies Week'/><category term='Relationships'/><category term='Ask a Bougie Chick'/><category term='Shout Out'/><category term='Bougie WorkTales'/><category term='BougieFamily'/><category term='Black History Month'/><category term='no post day on BnB'/><category term='Bougie Chicks dig sports too'/><category term='Post-Racial?'/><category term='General Bouge'/><category term='Obamaliciousness vs. the other 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term='Throwback Thursday'/><category term='Online Dating'/><category term='Music'/><category term='Memory lane'/><category term='WBFDD'/><category term='Bougie Recipe Swap'/><category term='WBPD'/><category term='I Love Black Men'/><category term='Double Standards'/><category term='Short'/><category term='Ready'/><category term='Bougie News Round-Up'/><category term='RIP'/><category term='5 on 5'/><category term='Bougie TV Watch'/><category term='Movie Week'/><category term='Wall Street'/><category term='Smart Guest Post Week'/><category term='Search for Mr. Good-Bougie'/><category term='Sports'/><category term='BougieLand Live'/><title type='text'>Comments on BougieLand: Five women it’s hard to be friends with… and I’ve ...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/feeds/1394723220431996359/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>One Chele</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/109555230009180340423</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-jVvh7dT07wM/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAECY/7DFNrji_3V0/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>39</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3136167542903384343</id><published>2010-09-15T19:43:36.548-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:43:36.548-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi and welcome. Yes, the urge to name names and po...</title><content type='html'>Hi and welcome. Yes, the urge to name names and post pictures is HARD to resist! LOL</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/3136167542903384343'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/3136167542903384343'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597816548#c3136167542903384343' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-634582820576463908</id><published>2010-09-15T19:40:44.683-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:40:44.683-05:00</updated><title type='text'>As a reformed Drama Queen, I approve and endorse t...</title><content type='html'>As a reformed Drama Queen, I approve and endorse this finely-written post - HA!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/634582820576463908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/634582820576463908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597644683#c634582820576463908' title=''/><author><name>Kiki</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1648751216772809380</id><published>2010-09-15T19:40:26.497-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:40:26.497-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Great point!</title><content type='html'>Great point!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1648751216772809380'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1648751216772809380'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597626497#c1648751216772809380' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1242198040150945875</id><published>2010-09-15T19:40:17.652-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:40:17.652-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Do I lose man points if I say I&amp;#39;m worried abou...</title><content type='html'>Do I lose man points if I say I&amp;#39;m worried about the male equivalent of this list?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1242198040150945875'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1242198040150945875'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597617652#c1242198040150945875' title=''/><author><name>datdudeincali</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8417196533050106431</id><published>2010-09-15T19:38:56.788-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:38:56.788-05:00</updated><title type='text'>i was hoping somebody would bring this one up.  my...</title><content type='html'>i was hoping somebody would bring this one up.  my former roommate told me that she is happy that i found somebody to love but it&amp;#39;s not fair because she is older and has been single longer and has more education than i do. wtf?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/8417196533050106431'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/8417196533050106431'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597536788#c8417196533050106431' title=''/><author><name>Foxy Brown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-9176817397045989598</id><published>2010-09-15T19:38:38.410-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:38:38.410-05:00</updated><title type='text'>can i just say i know some folks who will be recie...</title><content type='html'>can i just say i know some folks who will be recieving this list in their christmas cards?  there are some folk who need to be cut out of my life.  thank you, onechele.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/9176817397045989598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/9176817397045989598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597518410#c9176817397045989598' title=''/><author><name>Foxy Brown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1477847983335698431</id><published>2010-09-15T19:38:17.654-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:38:17.654-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Run like hell.</title><content type='html'>Run like hell.</content><link 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source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-7871199886560331243</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:52.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:52.005-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I work with a flock of Ms. KnowItAlls, it&amp;#39;s on...</title><content type='html'>I work with a flock of Ms. KnowItAlls, it&amp;#39;s one constant competition with them. They try and out dress,  out talk and out smart each other all week long. I played the keep up game for a while but it&amp;#39;s exhausting. I know allow them to tire out battling each other while I watch. By the time they get around to doing actual work, I&amp;#39;m already done!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/7871199886560331243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/7871199886560331243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597472005#c7871199886560331243' title=''/><author><name>Suzie S</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5846038742378550728</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:39.868-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:39.868-05:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;quot;Witches of a feather flock together&amp;quot; - ...</title><content type='html'>&amp;quot;Witches of a feather flock together&amp;quot; - Whoa! TRUTH! How about if you know someone who is a little bit of all of these? Then what in the world do you do?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5846038742378550728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5846038742378550728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597459868#c5846038742378550728' title=''/><author><name>derek love</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5925636389370451081</id><published>2010-09-15T19:37:09.071-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:37:09.071-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ah! The One-Up, backhanded compliment, Frenemy. We...</title><content type='html'>Ah! The One-Up, backhanded compliment, Frenemy. We&amp;#39;ll throw her in with Ms. KnowItAll.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5925636389370451081'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5925636389370451081'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597429071#c5925636389370451081' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5018720617514217650</id><published>2010-09-15T19:36:54.850-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:36:54.850-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;m not sure what column this friend goes in s...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m not sure what column this friend goes in so help me out.... the secret hater. This is the friend who makes comments so slick that you almost miss them. For example as a single young woman I prided myself on being financially stable and able to live comfortably in my means. I decide to buy my own home and upgrade my go me through college ride. My &amp;quot;friend&amp;quot; tell me after my house warming that if I can have all this nice stuff and do so well she should be able to so do much better because she was married and I was single. WTH?! Are you seriously giving me a slight comment while putting me down? Needless to say she and her husband purchased a home, new truck and new SUV about two months later. Do they still own those items........ negative.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5018720617514217650'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5018720617514217650'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597414850#c5018720617514217650' title=''/><author><name>aprilshanell79</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-3618404141935782950</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:52.851-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:52.851-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This post makes me want to jump up and applaud... ...</title><content type='html'>This post makes me want to jump up and applaud... that is all.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/3618404141935782950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/3618404141935782950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597352851#c3618404141935782950' title=''/><author><name>Noah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1116904704930471203</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:18.364-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:18.364-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Over the course of the last 8 years I ruthlessly c...</title><content type='html'>Over the course of the last 8 years I ruthlessly cut each and every one of these women out of my immediate circle of friends. Life is hard enough without trying to carry other people.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1116904704930471203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1116904704930471203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597318364#c1116904704930471203' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-7659254738835754025</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:17.969-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:17.969-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Why do the KnowItAlls tend to run things up at the...</title><content type='html'>Why do the KnowItAlls tend to run things up at the church house? They know every rule and bylaw with their self-righteous selves. Dropping Bible verses to the left and the right when Lord only knows how they&amp;#39;re living.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/7659254738835754025'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/7659254738835754025'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597317969#c7659254738835754025' title=''/><author><name>Lady Loves Hats</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-773158711625697393</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:14.648-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:14.648-05:00</updated><title type='text'>From a guy&amp;#39;s point of view; &amp;quot;Five Women I...</title><content type='html'>From a guy&amp;#39;s point of view; &amp;quot;Five Women I Can&amp;#39;t Date&amp;quot;.&lt;br /&gt;And these women are probably wondering why it is that they are still single.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/773158711625697393'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/773158711625697393'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597314648#c773158711625697393' title=''/><author><name>uglyblackjohn</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-6284946929272996250</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:02.135-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:02.135-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I wanna punch people like that in the throat.

Jus...</title><content type='html'>I wanna punch people like that in the throat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just tell me you hate me and let&amp;#39;s move on with our lives. Dang...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/6284946929272996250'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/6284946929272996250'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597302135#c6284946929272996250' title=''/><author><name>ASmith</name><uri>http://blackdiamond2008.blogspot.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-890529441285933351</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:00.916-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:00.916-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Yeah, we need a support group for real!</title><content type='html'>Yeah, we need a support group for real!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/890529441285933351'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/890529441285933351'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597300916#c890529441285933351' title=''/><author><name>ASmith</name><uri>http://blackdiamond2008.blogspot.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1522694983552718068</id><published>2010-09-15T19:35:00.559-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:35:00.559-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;ve been good about pushing the extremists to...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;ve been good about pushing the extremists to the fringes -- but it&amp;#39;s rough when you realize one of your closest friends is a maneater and that&amp;#39;s why ya&amp;#39;ll can&amp;#39;t go out together. LOL. Working on it, though.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1522694983552718068'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1522694983552718068'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597300559#c1522694983552718068' title=''/><author><name>ASmith</name><uri>http://blackdiamond2008.blogspot.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-6739033255780354535</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:22.157-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:22.157-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh my, vampiric? Um, as with Skyy below I feel I a...</title><content type='html'>Oh my, vampiric? Um, as with Skyy below I feel I ave inadvertently opened a wound of some sort. Apologies and good luck with that.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/6739033255780354535'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/6739033255780354535'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597262157#c6739033255780354535' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-5773440204300355686</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:14.557-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:14.557-05:00</updated><title type='text'>How are you going to keep that list down to five?!...</title><content type='html'>How are you going to keep that list down to five?!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5773440204300355686'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/5773440204300355686'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597254557#c5773440204300355686' title=''/><author><name>Carey Jackson</name><uri>http://twitter.com/CareyinCaramel</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-7432311438954050709</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:13.174-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:13.174-05:00</updated><title type='text'>We should form a club! Kind-hearted girls who get ...</title><content type='html'>We should form a club! Kind-hearted girls who get sucked into the CRAZY! I still struggle not to be that &amp;quot;there-there&amp;quot; (pat on the shoulder) prop. I tend to over-nurture and these women are drawn to that.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/7432311438954050709'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/7432311438954050709'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597253174#c7432311438954050709' title=''/><author><name>Carey Jackson</name><uri>http://twitter.com/CareyinCaramel</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-419112673202304664</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:12.738-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:12.738-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I have one! The high maintenance, never satisfied,...</title><content type='html'>I have one! The high maintenance, never satisfied, need more girl. Nothing is ever enough! Goes beyond maneating to bloodsucking vampiric types.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/419112673202304664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/419112673202304664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597252738#c419112673202304664' title=''/><author><name>JustPassingBy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-8094190422977347761</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:12.297-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:12.297-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am trying to shake a Witchy McB right now! Evil ...</title><content type='html'>I am trying to shake a Witchy McB right now! Evil just cuz she can be?! I sent her the link to this article because I&amp;#39;m passive aggressive that way... LOL!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/8094190422977347761'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/8094190422977347761'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597252297#c8094190422977347761' title=''/><author><name>Cassie</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1218844059488273865</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:11.940-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:11.940-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, it&amp;#39;s coming. Don&amp;#39;t you worry...</title><content type='html'>Oh, it&amp;#39;s coming. Don&amp;#39;t you worry...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1218844059488273865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/1218844059488273865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597251940#c1218844059488273865' title=''/><author><name>OneChele</name><uri>http://www.blacknbougie.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-2194295148439525566</id><published>2010-09-15T19:34:11.221-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T19:34:11.221-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Two midgets from Brazil? What?! You are crazy.  Lo...</title><content type='html'>Two midgets from Brazil? What?! You are crazy.  Love the list. God Bless Us, women can be so extra.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/2194295148439525566'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/1394723220431996359/comments/default/2194295148439525566'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html?showComment=1284597251221#c2194295148439525566' title=''/><author><name>Diana</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.blacknbougie.com/2009/12/five-women-its-hard-to-be-friends-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7886323613346427250.post-1394723220431996359' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7886323613346427250/posts/default/1394723220431996359' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1539503444'/></entry></feed>
