Thursday, December 01, 2011

Could you... "Ginger White" yourself? (Out your own ratchetness)


I'm not sitting in judgment of Ginger White. I'm not even sure she's telling the truth. Nor do I 100% gibbadam. Herman "Candy" Cain was never going to be my candidate. (Never. Ever.) But let's say she is speaking true for the sake of this post. According to multiple sources, Ginger is a single mom, a former businesswoman who has been evicted from her home, filed for bankruptcy, been accused of stalking, sued someone (not Cain) for sexual harassment and lost a libel suit. Judgment aside, the fact is her life appears to be a hot mess. 

So why add to the hot messiness by claiming a 13-year affair with a married man who is allegedly running for President? This is one of those things that make you say "Hmmm."

A few thoughts before I make my point...
1) Thirteen years is not casual. That's not an affair. That's a second family.
2) Ginger had to know that by going public her entire life would be dissected for widespread consumption & speculation
3) What are these chicks seeing in Uncle Hermy that I'm not? Eww. And. Ick.

Moving on... I've got some ratchet in my historical closet and I'm taking most of that ish to da grave, ya heard? You will not be catching Michele on a talk show couch admitting to X, Y, or Z. In fact, unless someone can prove ratchety allegations about me? I will deny, deny, deny. Come at me Horatio Caine (not Herman Cain) style and maybe (just maybe) I'll admit that it was me.

What good comes of these public confessions? Are mistresses everywhere in a better place because Ging got a conscience? Are politicians and public figures going to stop extra-marital fornication in fear of getting Gingered? I just wonder why anyone would go on national TV and open up all their sintasticness (thanks @ShawnSoze for the word) for the world to see?

So I wonder, if it came down to it - could I out my own ratchetassness the way Ginger White did? She admitted that there was nothing admirable about her confession or her life struggles. So why tell it? Because, in her words, she doesn't feel that "Herman Cain is fit to be President." But Ginger - we already knew that sweetheart. So unless someone is buying you a house and replenishing your 401(k), your dirty laundry airing was for naught. As for me, I couldn't do it. 

Tell me BougieLand, could you "Ginger White" yourself? [Ginger-Whiting is my new favorite term for people who drop dime on themselves] Does it really serve the greater good to do so? And seriously, aren't some things just better kept in the back of the closet buried under leg warmers and parachute pants? Please discuss...

129 comments:

Mina B. said...

I am a card carry member of #teamtakingittothegrave
What ever happened to being ASHAMED of your extra-ratchetal activities? Let's bring that back.

Miz JJ said...

There's no shame anymore. It's all about being famous with no discernable talent or skill.

I guess I am just old school. I am from a time when the outside woman knew her place. That woman needs to sit all the way down.

bashowell said...

*now that I've figured out how to log in*

Yeah see I would take that to the grave.  No how no way.  No one would know when it was happening or that it had been happening after it ended.  Also my friends and I can't agree on whether she's white, black, or none of the above...Anyone know?

OneChele said...

Disqus had upgraded me to a new "type" of setting. I didn't like it. We're back to our usual-usual.

thinklikeRiley said...

And we appreciate that.

thinklikeRiley said...

I don't understand "self-snitching" - that makes na'an sense to Riley.
And you iz waaaaay too polite about Gingy - her life = full explosion of #FAIL.
Maybe she want a book deal or a reality show or something to scrapple up crusts of bread for her kids who must be so damn proud of her azz. :/
Yeah Riley judging da shiggity outta her.
Herm the Worm? Fo' 13 years?!
GTFOH...

OSHH said...

Chile maybe someone offered to pay her to disclose all that information 0-O. Like someone else said people have no shame anymore. We had an interesting discussion in the salon last night, with my stylist saying she isn't mad at basketball or hip hop groupies/baby mama's hustling their past deeds and associations on tv for a buck. I on the other hand am like they are forever tainting their image for ca$h although alot of those shows are scripted, you can't put a price tag on my dignity, but then I am not carrying it like that anyway with "famous" men or not, groupie status never been for moi.

Sol_dier said...

Wouldn't it have been more advantageous to wait until he is elected and then just keep getting hush money?.
Or maybe she thinks she should cash in now, because she realised this is probably as far as he can go? 

CaliGirlED said...

"I am from a time when the outside woman knew her place." HA!!! How about having a friend since childhood that as an adult you find out is really your cousin! Outside woman kept her place, outside! But that is a family secret that I'm still mad about my family keeping...But I digress!

CaliGirlED said...

"a book deal or a reality show" is coming in 5, 4, 3....

Duchess K said...

Im taking my ratchedness to the grave. In this age of document everything I will be damned.. thank goodness a good portion of it was pre-camera phones. Best of luck to Ginger White and the rest of Herman Cain's harem...

Foxy Brown said...

some stuff you just take to the grave. i mean, i want grandkids one day.  if they hear something bout me, imma need their response to be "naw, not grandma. she so sweet." as opposed to, "yea, that sounds about right."

and for the record, you really can not change a heaux into a housewife, so ladies and gentlemen choose accordingly.

CaliGirlED said...

"I've got some ratchet in my historical closet and I'm taking most of that ish to da grave, ya heard?" Right!!!

And should I ever fall down, bump my head, get up crazy and sleep with a married man, y'all will NEVER know unless someone else decides to tell that story!

maureen said...

To use your tag  this mornig #Takeittothegrave. These women who feel the need to share these information are selfish and   their acts are very self-fulfilling.

maureen said...

"some stuff you just take to the grave. i mean, i want grandkids one day.  if they hear something bout me, imma need their response to be "naw, not grandma. she so sweet." as opposed to, "yea, that sounds about right."-ROTFLMAO

Just_A_Thought1218 said...

No. If the off-chance of me doing something ratchet occurs, you won't hear about it from my lips. You could see me, and I'm going to pull an Eddie Murphy ["wasn't me" *shrug*] and quickly change the subject.

But to the case of Hermie Herm, it's interesting to me that he sought out women that were financially vulnerable (but didn't break off any significant money or jobs or NAYTHIN).  Seems a bit predatory to me.

taut_7 said...

she can miss me with her "he's not fit to be president". her conscious wasn't eating away at her. she wants attention and money. plain and simple. maybe she'll get a book deal or a made for tv movie out of her story. that being said, i would never air my dirty laundry for the world to see. i don't care if my ex cutty buddy was running for president of the universe. what happened in the past, stays in the past.

blackprofessor said...

My dad used to say discretion is the other side of valor or something like that.  Team discretion all day! I blame Kim K/reality TV because it shows women cashing in on ratchetness.  I don't think Ginger was being altruistic, she needs some cash.  

Is it me or is anyone else starting to think that Hermy has mad skills in the bedroom? Ginger carried on for 13 years with Hermy when he has 1) zero sex appeal, 2) obviously isn't giving hush money, and 3) doesn't appear to be the smartest tack in the bunch.  Hermy must know what he is doing! 

JoycelynC said...

I am team 'take it to the grave' and 'everything 'aint for everybody to know'.  She claims that people started calling her and her family members about the story so she decided to just tell it versus being outed but I would have used that time to craft a hell of a denial speech. 

rozb said...

"Is it me or is anyone else starting to think that Hermy has mad skills in the bedroom? Ginger carried on for 13 years with Hermy when he has 1) zero sex appeal, 2) obviously isn't giving hush money, and 3) doesn't appear to be the smartest tack in the bunch.  Hermy must know what he is doing!"

Ick. He looks like that old man that we used to say would give you worms. So...no.

Mykeia said...

I did not know all that background information on her...but I just loooovvvvee how everyone from Atlanta is a former business woman...no shade.
I could not out myself...some things will go with me to the grave.
I am still trying to understand why anyone would be in a relationship with some one that they knew was married for 13 years--knowing full well that you could never, ever truly have that person's heart  because it belonged to someone else...

rozb said...

I think she put it out there because he was saying how delusional she was, in his "pre-emptive" statements. In other words "Naw Ninja! Don't put me in your public ish! And don't you dare try to F with who I am." Hey - the woman knows her truth. At least she didn't go all Gloria Allred and stuff...

I believe her. Look at the extensive cell phone record history of 4 am booty calls and ish. He cannot deny this.

And to top it off he still hasn't faced Mama Cain in person since this all flew out the closet door.

ccb296 said...

Look the bottom line is that white Ginger (yeah I said it!) is just a side-piece that got cut off so she’s pissed.  And in typical nuttier than squirrel sh*t side-piece logic she convinced herself into believing that she meant much more than she actually did.  So when it all came out that he was attempting to cheat on her with all those other white women; she completely freaked out and decided to do the only thing she could do to get back at him.  Regardless of the fact that she’s the only one losing as a result of her confession.

rozb said...

...Scrapple.

That about sums up this mess...

blackprofessor said...

Roz, he must be doing something.  He was with this chic for 13 years so there has to be some draw!

ccb296 said...

Neither.  She's not pretty and he's not important enough.

CaliGirlED said...

 "he sought out women that were financially vulnerable (but didn't break off any significant money or jobs or NAYTHIN)"...And the Player of the Year goes to....Hermy Herm Candy Cain!

CaliGirlED said...

"He looks like that old man that we used to say would give you worms." Ick and ew!!! I used to giggle when my aunts would say that! LOL

CaliGirlED said...

 Like JAT said below, Eddie Murphy all day long!

Mykeia said...

"naw, not grandma. she so sweet." as opposed to, "yea, that sounds about right."<---dead!

Mykeia said...

Is it me or is anyone else starting to think that Hermy has mad skills in the bedroom?<--dammmmmmnnnn!  I wasn't wondering but that's okay because now I am dead from laughter!

Mykeia said...

" in typical nuttier than squirrel sh*t side-piece logic she convinced herself into believing that she meant much more than she actually did."<---dang, probably true but so sad.

Earthangel172 said...

 Scandalous tales like this need to go to the grave. I do believe her ratchet arse though. She's an opportunist with nothing to lose but I don't see her earning top $$ from this story either.

Earthangel172 said...

LOL!!

Earthangel172 said...

Ikr?! LOL

Don't need any future grandkids giving me the side-eye.

Earthangel172 said...

"...thank goodness a good portion of it was pre-camera phones."

^5!

Earthangel172 said...

"her life = full explosion of #FAIL."
LMAO!

Earthangel172 said...

oh.my.damn.

TrulyPC said...

Lord knows there are some dumb things in my past that would never be aired for public consumption because as my great uncle used to say, " I ain't about to provide the shovel to dig my own hole". 

Ginger messed up.  I don't know what her endgame is (maybe a book deal) but no endgame is worth me inviting the world into my less than stellar life choices for it to be documented into history.  Hell and No.

TrulyPC said...

I know, like finding out your "play" cousin really is your cousin is all kinds of shady.  Family secrets be rough sometimes. *sigh*

Just_A_Thought1218 said...

"...but I just loooovvvvee how everyone from Atlanta is a former business woman..." or businessman. ATL is the land of the side hustle, and everyone here swears that makes them a CEO. FedEx Office business card printing services - abetting delusions of grandeur for low, low prices.

Miz JJ said...

I know all about those type of shenanigans SMDH.

Not to slut shame, but if you decided to become the outside woman then know your role. It's not to be all up in the mix. It's to be quietly in the background. Emphasis on quiet.

Just_A_Thought1218 said...

She may have been salty that he cut her off when he ran for office, but Hermie messed up by not ensuring she agreed not to run her mouth. Side pieces who "know their role" comply when their needs are met. Be it money, attention, the delusion that she is your soulmate, you have to break her off something to get her to be #2. If you don't give a suitable replacement for what you were supplying when you want to leave, side pieces are going to air out the dirty laundry you had no problem in making.

GuessImJay said...

I love how these BnB discussions take on lives or their own. The knowledge on "side-piece-ology" is impressive.

SingLikeSassy said...

How do you date somebody else's husband for 13 years? I mean, in 13 years you couldn't find your own man?

ANDalsoplus according to the Wash Post, she has a history of financial difficulties including several eviction notices. Da hell? I'm stirring mad cocoa with another chick's husband for 13 years my rent/house note better be paid EVERY-DAMN-MONTH on time. Sheeeeeeeiiiiiiiit

ClayJones said...

Not that I'm defending old girl but after 13 years, I think she probably was right in assuming that she meant something to dude. She was clearly well beyond a HnQ.

ClayJones said...

Sidebar - Who's the baby daddy of her kids?

mlisaac said...

Why did I instantly turn into Michael Kyle from "My Wife and Kids" when I read today's question?  "Ehh...no!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFCfUl1R7SQ

SingLikeSassy said...

My coworker just said the same thing. "Candy" Cain indeed. LOL!

bashowell said...

Family shenanigans will get you every time.  White girl appeared at my aunt's funeral and nobody knows who she was.  Turns out it was my uncle's secret daughter :-\

CaliGirlED said...

O_o

ASmith said...

Let me say this here...

My ratchetry is not for general consumption, never, ever, ever.  I'm not telling more than I have to about my dirty deeds, ever, ever, ever.

That being established, I have this thing about people suddenly needing to Ginger White themselves after a long period of time.  In my experience, that is RARELY ever about anything more than a personal need to get rid of the guilt and also rarely helps the hearer.  So you cheated on me 10 years ago?  Well if you made it this far without somebody getting caught, then let's just let sleeping dogs lie.  To me, Ginger White-ing onself is selfish.

Y'all welcome.

CaliGirlED said...

"nuttier than squirrel sh*t side-piece logic" *falls out the chair*

CaliGirlED said...

" I ain't about to provide the shovel to dig my own hole"....Words to live by!

CaliGirlED said...

*chuckles at "side-piece-ology"*

SingLikeSassy said...

She has an ex-husband so maybe him?

BklynBajan said...

There are certain folks who if they dared stepped up to the public podium pulling mess I may have to shut them down (& in essence tell on myself). Sometimes you gotta take one for the team. I still say Cain has to be some kind of arrAgant to think that his mulitiple issues would not come up. Whomever did background checks on him for the republican party needs to be fired. Surely in all of America there is another candidate of color that wouldn't cause all this distraction. Not that he ever had my vote but geesh!

ShawnSoze said...

*raises hand and taps mic*

My question is for Herman Running Trains Cain... Sir, how you side-piecing it for over a decade and deciding to run for President? Of the United States? Of America? Of North America?

Ninja have several seats and take all your extracurricular women with you. Like yesterday.

tishatweets said...

Yeah, no.

In this instance specifically, she had absolutely nothing to gain, nor was she doing the public a service. We didn't need her to color this dude totally, 100% un-1600 Pennsylvania worthy. We...knew that. I personally think she's shooting for a book deal or some appearance monies. *shrugs*

Lastly, while ratchetness is totally subjective, there are definitely some things in my life that only me God and I will ever know about. El Fin.

CaliGirlED said...

But see that's the thing, once you go past a year or two of being that side-piece, he got you, you ain't goin nowhere! You start accepting that, "I just don't have to give to you right now, you know I told you about all that stuff that came up, but soon as I get myself back together Imma take care of you, you know I love you right?" bulls**t!

And no I do not have any personal knowledge of such heauxnanigans, but have shook my head many-a-day at these kinds of stories! (Jay I gained my "side-piece-ology" through watching and observing the madness! LOL) And I am a firm believer in "you have no rights"!...I point you here: The Side Piece Contract http://tinyurl.com/cohed7p

ASmith said...

I'm stealing "team discretion" and by "stealing" I mean "officially creating my jersey for"

tishatweets said...

Man, look! LOL.

tishatweets said...

Or, she just has such an incredibly low sense of self that she was content in getting nothing for her everything.

tishatweets said...

Agreed. Some stuff shouldn't be for sale.

tishatweets said...

I'm inclined to come back and like this post every day for the rest of the month.

People don't even have enough good sense to BE shame anymore. Smh.

Bryan Anthony said...

Get him told.

Bryan Anthony said...

Get him told.

Bryan Anthony said...

Or maybe Herman stopped paying child support?

Bryan Anthony said...

*fist bump*

JoycelynC said...

Well hell Clinton did it.  Now I know there is one very glaring difference but sometimes people forget that just because you have made it, you still cannot do everything other people can do and have the same results. 

Bryan Anthony said...

And now "Papa was a Rollin' Stone" is stuck in my head.

OneChele said...

And the comment of the day goes to.... Mina! 
Let the church say Amen and Amen.

Jamie Wesley said...

"Is it me or is anyone else starting to think that Hermy has mad skills
in the bedroom? Ginger carried on for 13 years with Hermy when he has 1)
zero sex appeal, 2) obviously isn't giving hush money, and 3) doesn't
appear to be the smartest tack in the bunch.  Hermy must know what he is
doing!"

I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. Eww. Gross. I do not want to think of this man in this way at all.

CaliGirlED said...

THIS RIGHT HERE!!!

Dying over "Herman Running Trains Cain"!!!

Earthangel172 said...

LMAO!

Go to jail. Do not pass GO. Do not collect $200.

For real tho, whoever said heauxs be winning was lying!

MelaninEnriched said...

To answer the question, I'd NEVER Ginger White myself. Some things need to be locked in the vault!

But I feel that ever since Tiger's jump-offs got on the "come-up" train with their confessions, jump offs have been MORE than willing to share their stories. I think a lot of them think they'll be getting book deals, TV exposure, etc. and for the most part that's true these days. I mean clearly she doesn't have a conscience about having an adulterous relationship with a man for 13 years, so she probably doesn't feel any kind of way about talking about it publicly if it gets her some fame/money. So, I just see it as opportunity for her to get her 15 seconds.

Earthangel172 said...

Wow!

BklynBajan said...

I am dying with the hierarchy of relationships! Poor Kris Humphries!

BklynBajan said...

I don't think most on here was buying what he was selling but I don't think everyone has written him off yet. Its like they (media/supporters/pundits) are waiting for someone elses's scandal to break to take the light off of Cain but instead more keeps coming out. There is something wrong with America that he even has option to continue running. We have serious issues and no time for these foolish distractions.

Pure Choco said...

So how bad is it that I started a new job today and the first thing I did was check to make sure I have access to BnB and Disqus?

Anywho - no GingerWhiteing. Chele, Imma need a t-shirt.

Pure Choco said...

I'm going even further back. That NY Governor's "escort" who made $700k in one day - she killed the game for everybody.

Pure Choco said...

Amen!

Pure Choco said...

Yes, cosignage to alladat.

Pure Choco said...

Thank you

Pure Choco said...

oooo - subplot.

Pure Choco said...

"ANDalsoplus" - stealing it.

Pure Choco said...

Right? I didn't know all the rules and regs of the game. I 'preciate the education, BnB

Pure Choco said...

My granddad "I ain't gonna hand you the gun and give you the bullets"

Grace said...

On the real - can NO one make him go away?

Grace said...

Oh and to answer your question - hell to the nizzy. I don't care if dude is running for Emperor of the Milky Way - you do that, boo - I ain't saying a word.

blackprofessor said...

I'm stirring mad cocoa with another chick's husband for 13 years my rent/house note better be paid EVERY-DAMN-MONTH on time. - SLS, I am with you! I thought this was the point of being a sidepiece, financial comeuppance!

blackprofessor said...

Herman Running Trains Cain - Lord why? I can't stop laughing at this!

SingLikeSassy said...

If she meant something to him he would have left his wife and married her. *slams gavel*

So why she is shocked that she got dumped when he got presidential aspirations is beyond me.  She was always disposable. See The Side Piece Contract for background.

CaliGirlED said...

Side piece = disposable

CaliGirlED said...

If I was drinking something, it would have went everywhere!

CaliGirlED said...

"financial comeuppance"....my vocabulary is really growing this day!

Unfortunately, many side pieces are not achieving financial comeuppance. They are victims of downsizing and layoffs and rarely walk away with severance packages!

CaliGirlED said...

*hollers*

Duchess K said...

I feel bad for kids today. Their ratchedness is constantly put on blast.

CaliGirlED said...

*raises hand* How can I...? Never mind! I'm just saying Noo Noo will be going to college in a few, tuition is high!

CaliGirlED said...

DEAD!!!

Internet access? Good!...BnB? Great!...Disqus? All clear!...Ok you said I need to do what now?

CaliGirlED said...

You guys are killing me today! First Taut with President of the Universe and now Grace with Emperor of the Milky Way!...I love BougieLand!!!

Leo the Yardie Chick said...

I will answer your question with a quote from my Mama: "Your ass will never be too old to beat."

So, no. No public declaration of my scallywag ways, no ma'am.

The Bunni said...

I was and it did!

The Bunni said...

Just as I had finally composed myself from President of the Universe......Emperor of the Milky Way!! x_x

La said...

Before I go read the comments...

HELL NO. Even as candid as I am, some things you just keep to yourself. Hell, there's stuff I've hidden from getting out so well, I have almost forgotten it.

There's no way you could convince me to air out 13 years of being somebody's sideline heaux. I wonder if this is really about the "greater good" or about aligning her wayward life Gloria Alred style with someone who will turn her problems into popularity...

La said...

He likely felt that because so many other front runners did it, he could too. He's running against Newt "3rd Mistress is the Charm- Maybe" Gingrich, after all.

La said...

The real talk of it tho... The REAL mistresses? The ones who ARE getting all these things from married, powerful men, ESPECIALLY those in Washington? You will NEVER EVER HEAR FROM THEM EVER IN ALL OF THE LIFETIMES.

The Gloria Allred Harem are in a totally different league. lol

La said...

I think we'd all like to believe that there are people who, after 13 years, would HAVE to form some sort of attachment to someone, but the fact of the matter is, the type of sociopath who can carry on a 13 year affair ON TOP OF multiple affairs, while maintaining a decades long marriage and racking up sexual harassment charges is likely not the type to form attachments like the rest of us. lol

La said...

As a native of Atlanta, I really wanna be offended but LMAOOOOOO this is so true. Everybody is a "bawse" but nobody has any business. Smh. lol

La said...

My coworker said this too. After I cleaned up my vomit, I still wonder, even if he does, how do you GET to that point of finding out? 'Cuz he still looks and sounds like he does. lol

Sol_dier said...

Lol. I can so picture you saying that in a southern drawl. Damn its hard out there for a 'trick'?

CaliGirlED said...

This is huge with rich Korean men! Ok maybe just the ones in LA? *shrugs* Anywho, side pieces live a good life and never cause any problems for the husband and his wife.

Singlelif said...

My response is in direct opposition to my law enforcement career, but still, I'm a firm believer in "admit nothing, deny everything, and ask for proof".  Words to live by. Trust !

Singlelif said...

$700K will almost, kinda, maybe make me change my stance on my earlier comment. Rethinking how many "episodes" I might have swung back in the day.....anybody GingerWhiteWorthy?  Hold up, let me think...

OneChele said...

Points for "scallywag"

JaymeC said...

#TeamDiscretion
#TeamTakeItToTheGrave
#TeamKnowYourRole

SMH

JaymeC said...

Oh and one more
#NoCountryForHotMessHeaux

BklynBajan said...

LOL!

Paul on Ice said...

What Jayme said.

GammasWorld said...

Too tired to read the comments and apparently too old to remember to check BnB since I was off all dang day.   Anywho .... saw Ginger on Last Word.   As to why she came forward, one of her blabber mouth friends apparently leaked the whole thing.  I imagine friend said "ain't that the dude I seent over here last month?".   Lesson:  if you gon' creep be discreet.  Don't.Tell.Anyone.    She told her kids (including 20 year old daughter) and went public before newspaper outed her.  She also said it wasn't about love.  It was sexual and fun.  Translation:  "These younguns, I'm broke, I want to have some fun, along came Hermy and provided all that plus he helped me pay these damn bills".   

Brenda Kay said...

I've been wondering the same thing, since Ms. Ginger popped onto the scene... 

Brenda Kay said...

Instead of wanting his Secret Service name to be "cornbread", I think Herman Cain should go with "Captain Save-A-Ho". 

JojoRaze said...

Not a Ginger White fan...but the thing is all the credible reports have said that she came forward because reporters have been calling her and camping out near her residence for a month or so.  So, she came forward to get the story out her way after all the pressure.  I tend to believe this since her presentation isn't slick and she isn't backed by Gloria Allred.

Seems she just wanted to get this off her chest and move on.

SingLikeSassy said...

He didn't help her pay no bills if she has had several eviction notices (per the Wash Post). So she got got.

rikyrah said...

she wasted 13 years on a MARRIED MAN.

13 YEARS?

for real?

I loathe Herman Cain, but this woman is ridiculous.

mynameisvictory said...

Sad to say this but being Herman Cain's mistress is not looking to bad for Ginger White right now. Now she is cashing in through exclusive interviews, you know a book deal is in the works, and she may even get a reality show. Not to soley blame her for the alleged affair but why is it the whole world's business?

Avp0713 said...

Anybody who cannot use their BRAIN to imagine what life must have been like for Ginger AND Herman is just stupid.  There are no other words for you.  Sometimes young people (under 40) don't understand things about life yet....   It is apparent Ginger and Herman had their little love thang going on and they were both enjoying it... So Be it!  I ain't madatcha!  In fact - I'm glad they were doing the damn thing.  After 20+ years of marriage believe me, it is an easy sidetrack. E-A-S-Y!  No disrespect for Mrs. Cain.  But when Hubby is horny and you gots that mufkin headache... you know what time it is.  NOW, as for Ginger?  I ain't mad at her either!  At the end of the day, she was having $$$ problems and Herman was ready to give out some cash.  So?  You gon GIVE IT AWAY?  Hell no!  Take that Cake miss thang, and work that cootchi!  It is what it is.  Y'all people wearin the "rose colored glasses" won't figure that out till you're married 20+ years and your house is in foreclosure.

One Chele said...

Perhaps her life is a hot mess because she made the conscious decision to swirl the cocoa with a married man for 13 years. Talk about blocking your blessings. LOL.

Now that she has been outted confessed, perhaps she'll be set free....probably by way of a book deal that will at least alleviate some of her financial woes. I guess ratchetness has it's rewards. :-/

As for me, I guess I strive to not be so ratchet as to have anything I'd take to the grave. I might participate in destroying an empire  for the right price if I could justify the world would be better off by it.... *raised eyebrow*

One Chele said...

I only have a few bones in my closet (no skeletons yet) and I'm not admitting to a damn thing.

You better have some eyewitnesses, dna evidence (cause eyewitnesses are unreliable), AND physical evidence or I'm putting my t.v. Law degree to use and finding alternate versions of what went down, creating reasonable doubt like a mofo.

And even if the evidence is solid, Shaggy & Chris Rock won't have ish on me when I'm all "So you allegedly caught me on camera?.... It wasn't me."

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