Tuesday, June 07, 2011

Undies... the second of three topics to kill dead


And here's a topic we will never (ever, ever) discuss again in BougieLand - foundation garments. Yes, bras and drawers.

Every few days or so, someone on Twitter (usually a male) announces that women ain't on their five-star, "A" game if they are stepping out without matching their name brand bra to their name brand panties. I wish I was joking. I really do. 

Following this announcement comes a maelstrom of fevered debate from all sides. Folks start weighing in on brands (La Perla, Vicki's, Bali, Hanes), folks want to know what the male equivalent of matching lingerie sets might be, and then people start choosing sides. You have women that agree, women that tell you to kiss their entire mismatched azzes, guys who cosign, guys who are team #AslongastheycomeoffIdontcare and both sexes who think the conversation is pointless.

I'm a matchy-matchy kind of girl but I can't always make it work. Some days I give less than a damn. Some lingerie is um... "occasion specific" and not meant for all day wear. Women feel me when I say that some bras are just instruments of torture and even though you really wanted to rock the sky blue fit to match the striped boy shorts, it just wasn't meant to be. Sometimes an underwire goes awry. Sometimes the cream colored stretch lace meets an untimely end in the dryer and there goes the set. Seriously, it's not as easy as it sounds.

What I want to know is - who are these men who feel they can tell you what to wear? Especially when it comes to intimates? And seriously, a man has you to the point where you're down to undies and is going to stop because your cherry red bra clashes with your sunshine yellow thong? This is a man showing lack of motivation and focus, with that inability to stay on point... he can move along. 

The women who felt it was imperative to impress a man with their $300 matching lingerie set game? You're worried about the wrong things sweetheart. You need to step your game up so that old boy is drooling when you're rocking three year old Fruit-of-the-Loom, ya hear? And how are you going to feel when those $75 sheer triangles get torn (it happens) and old boy doesn't offer to replace them? Hmpfh. That's an expensive affectation. 

I don't even want to get into the double standard. Some of you fellas have got to do better with your drawers game. Seriously. Just. Do. Better.

So I'm deading the conversation right here. Do we really need folks telling us what to wear under there? Really? Thoughts, comments, astounded musings? Have at it, one day only... BnB discusses boxers, briefs, bras and boy shorts...

137 comments:

Jubilance said...

"who are these men who feel they can tell you what to wear?" - THIS has been my biggest issue with this matching undies debate. It seems like everyday there's some new edict from the men on what women need to be doing, in order to get a man, keep a man, and not get cheated on.  Yeah...miss me with all that. Men don't get to dictate my ever move in my life, hell, my man cant dictate my every move - all he can do is suggest & hope I implement his suggestion.

Granted I'm on the younger side here in BougieLand, but I've never had a man request I wear matching undies, or was disappointed when I wasn't. The ones who do care, need something else to do cause clearly they have too much time on their hands.

Brendadc said...

When I first read the matching undies debate, I cracked up while shaking my head. I'm all for being matchy matchy when I can, but do the men who are demanding the matching undies know how expensive those sets can be? Give me my pack of Hanes and keep it moving.

Nicole said...

WTH?? Those dudes demanding matching undies are types that are a little TOO concerned with fashion and I would watching you all sideways from then on if you ever voiced it. No man better be so piss poor outta they minds to tell a woman what she should look like. There are billions of women in the world, if ya don't like how I look/dress/act , then keep it moving onto someone who fits the bill for your aesthetic standards and leave me the hell alone.

Matching undies are lovely and cool but not necessary for life or stirring cocoa. Once they are clean, in decent condition (no holey rollers here) and on your body, ya good ta go.

Natasha Hunter said...

How you gonna 2 scraps away from glory and they have an issue because the set doesn't match?  That's totally ridiculous...  and I'm side-eyeing a grown man that uses "five-star, "A" game" as a descriptor too.  Sometimes the fun is in mxing and matching, being creative and surprising instead of someone dictating what should go with what.

Turn off the videos & isht...

miz jj said...

I could get all rude and say these are the same dudes who have holes in their undies, but I'll simply say I wear what I want, when I want because I am grown up.

CaliGirlED said...

I thought Katt Williams had already laid this issue to rest! Yes it is nice sometimes to appear half naked and coordinated in your undies or lingerie when  you come to bed. But are men really expecting this all the time??? I dare to guess it's men who haven't been in real, long term relationships with real women who lead real lives. They're more used to the women who are constantly trying to bring their "A" game to make the cut.

This sums it up, "You need to step your game up so that old boy is drooling when you're rocking three year old Fruit-of-the-Loom, ya hear?"....If I haven't mentally, emotionally and physically stimulated my man enough to where it doesn't matter what I step to him in, then we need to re-evaluate...Paraphrasing Chele, "Oh the panties that matched this bra were destroyed in the dryer. The wire came out of the bra that matched these panties." Sets get separated, it's called Life!

And yes fellas (probably the main ones with such demands) you need to step up your drawers game too. You want your women in Vicki's and La Perla's, but you're laying up there in your 5 for $12 boxers!

Kim (✿◠‿◠) said...

 What I'm more concerned  about and what every woman should be concerened about, particularly if you're topsy -curvy, is a good bra. And they aren't cheap.   I match on special occasions.....maybe

CaliGirlED said...

I thought Katt Williams already laid this issue to rest! Yes it's nice to sometimes come to bed half naked and coordinated in your undies or lingerie, but every night! I don't think these are real men who deal with real women who lead real lives. These are men who are used to chicks running through bringing their "A" game trying to make the cut.

Yes this bra once had panties to match it, the dryer destroyed them. Yes these panties once had a bra to match them, the under wire came out. Sets get separated, it's called life!

And if this is not the case for you, "old boy is drooling when you're rocking three year old Fruit-of-the-Loom", then you have bigger issues than matching undies.

SingLikeSassy said...

"If I go to church on Sunday, and I shimmy down on Monday, t'ain't nobody's business if I do." -- Billie Holiday

I match. Everyday. I'm always thinking about "what if I'm in an accident and I have on orange panties and a purple bra?!" Yes, I like and wear Skittles-colored undies. LOL! But I do that for ME. If a dude gets to see and likes it, well, OK. *shrugs* Still, my hubby DID like to see my sweet brown round in lacy boy shorts so I added those to my collection, so I'm not opposed to wearing something my sweetie likes, but there's a difference between doing something your sweetie likes and being TOLD to do something.

DFig said...

Katt Williams was the first thing that popped into my head!!! His stretch mark bit sums this up....a man that is worried about matching underwear is a B-A-Ninja.  I mean seriously?!!  My husband is happy if I come to bed without one of his old soccer jerseys on....low standards, maybe??? But that's marriage.

CaliGirlED said...

And yes fellas (probably the main ones with such demands) you need to
step up your drawers game too. You want your women in Vicki's and La
Perla's, but you're laying up there in your 5 for $12 boxers! 

CaliGirlED said...

I love to match my undies too! And most days I do, like you said for ME. My poor baby won't be so lucky. Like Kim below, she will be more concerned with support than coordinating!

Bethany Showell said...

Most dudes I've dealt with don't care what I'm wearing - as long as it comes off.  Had one fool all up in arms about that.   I got real contrary real fast and went out and bought the most mismatched and granny drawered set I could find.  Hmph.

taut_7 said...

matching undergarments are nice. i do notice but they are by far a requirement. honestly after about 45 seconds i could care less. i don't really understand why this is a debate. 

Zethu said...

I think the most important thing is that they should be clean.

GrownAzzMan said...

I.Can't.With.This. I will just let Katt Williams speak on this for me today. Just sub matching underwear for matching nail color and you will get the point. This is not even close to safe for work. NSFW!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8vbaAg6f9jc

thinklikeRiley said...

What level of bitchassedness is this? We can dead the drama out the gate, ev'body go commando..

William Martin said...

And come off quickly. That. is. All.

Javalicious said...

I cannot believe this is a debatable issue. Particularly when a lot of the men I know I rocking baggy ass briefs with dubious stains and unfortunate fit. Elastic wears out fellas. Replace it. Grey/Beige is not white. Black cotton boxers are your friend.

Love, your friend  Java

Violet Rose said...

Chele - I had an underwire malfunction the other day, those damn things. What are the chances I'm going to find another seafoam green lace plunge neck? That set is no more. Match or no match, I've had no complaints.

MCYBW said...

I had one man complain about my underwear choices, and my lack of matching sets (had em just didn't give a durn)  I was a broke college student at the time (5 whole years ago) and told him that if he wanted matching lace and frills he'd need to go out and buy that because it was illogical and impractical for me to blow my money on such things or to even take the time to thing about it.  Needless to say those panties and bras might still be in a drawer at his house for all I know...  

Angela said...

If a man wants to see me in something other than what I already have, he should feel perfectly free to purchase them for me.

Cherelle D. Mattox said...

And there you have it.

AppleBerryMIA said...

Thank God I'm engaged to a man who thinks black cotton is the bomb.
I'm more of a basic primary color, natural fiber girl.

Reecie said...

I like to match too. I prefer a set, but even if I don't have a set, I coordinate my colors. with my clothes if its not laundry time. but I do it for me!  I really don't understand the men folk with a strong position, but I guess it comes from seeing something before and LIKING it. nothing wrong with liking it. imposing that on random strangers is more than a bit much, however.

and the cost thing? man listen, he better be buying. I like nice quality things yes but if its pretty to me, I'll buy it from Target if I want to, and you'll like it! 

Cherelle D. Mattox said...

Well, I'm with you Chele. I wish this topic would die already. For those women like myself that have been blessed with some curves my requirement for undergarments are clean, comfortable, and support.

Now, my undergarments just so happen to coordinate because it makes me feel happy throughout the day but I do have my days where they don't match because I'm running late, tired, etc.

CaliGirlED said...

ROTF LMAO!!!

rozb said...

 I am crying right now!

CaliGirlED said...

Bwahahahaha!!!

jake said...

Not giving a damn. At all.

MichelleG said...

While he's shopping he should throw some Clorox 2 (for colors) and some Cottonelle wet wipes in the cart also!

Evansaw said...

Being from the old school; we don't talk about undies with the guys unless they are buying....

CaliGirlED said...

"Thank God I'm engaged to a man who thinks black cotton is the bomb. " Another one of my favorite couples! You guys crack me up!

rozb said...

My requirements are clean, working elastic, and hole-free. Matching is a bonus, so...

This is a fantasy issue, just like the fact no ninja will ever see me go to bed wearing 4-inch spiked high heel pumps, or porn-star fingernails. This is doing too much.

As for the $75 sheer triangles? Nah - I must have support and it must be kinda strong. The lace over it is an embellishment.

Besides, if my underwear not matching is a deal-breaker, we need to examine why my underwear is that important to you, and why it keeps disappearing out of my house. And why does it seem you might have strap marks...just sayin'...

Evansaw said...

Must agree, although the younger guys seem to be a lot more adventurous with the style  than the over -40 set.....
 Over 40's:
It's time to give up the tighty whities; go with the boxers; they are your friend!  LOL

MichelleG said...

If your exercise game is UP when the time is right he won't be able to focus on anything you are wearing. However these same dudes need to understand that high standards go BOTH ways. You can only suck in a gut for so long so miss me with the "I was a HS athlete" tales.  If my disappointment has my mind  wandering to review  your underwear then notify Houston that you're about to have a serious problem as the flight will be cancelled.

sol_dier said...

I have a solution for men who do this:

Start dating other men. You really are not that into women. 
Katt Williams has a brilliant sketch on this, something about never in history have men stopped being intimate because a womans' nail polish doesn't match....

Same thing with undies...

Mika said...

I wear a G cup, and Lawd knows my bras are expensive. And obviously I'm not going to find misses-sized matching panties. Huge bras have huge panties to match. All that matters is if you get to see them, that means they are coming off.

sol_dier said...

orange and purple on dark skin are complimentary colors lol. You are matching even when not trying :)

Man's World said...

I don't mind the Vicki's Secret wardrobe, but as a man who has financed lingerie in the past - I see where you coming from. I can pull on 3 for $10 hanes and keep it moving, you feel free to do the same.

JohnKinPDX said...

Man listen. I should own stock in La Perla right about now. I still don't understand: bra for $178, panties for $102 - that's just...
Don't get me started.

OneChele said...

Go to Cacique.com, justmysize.com and LaurenSilva.com they have size up to cup size J in a multitude of colors and styles (with matching undies). Chesty girls need color as well as support!

cocoaeyecandy said...

My last s/o was "happiest" when I rocked a plain camitank with cotton boyshorts.
I can't with the superficial.

Pure Choco said...

I'm matchy matchy also but that's purly for my anal-retentive self. If a man demanded it,  I don't know what I'd do or say.

Mykeia said...

Sometimes the matching is just not going to happen, especially when you are top heavy.  My spouse is team Just Be Decent.  I believe that you should wear something that will not embarass you if your clothes have to be cut off in an emergency.  As long as things are clean, not torn/full of holes and holds things in place you're all good.  Now of course there is the special occasion and as we all know that will always be on point before it comes off.

Natasha Hunter said...

Word.

Jason P said...

I'll take my shots for this but I have to say that if it's "special occasion" time and girlie is all dolled up with the dress and heels and we've had nice evening out on the town, it's way disappointing for her to take off that one layer of pretty stuff to have on beige regular regulars underneath. Not saying that's going to change the course of events, just wish she would have taken that extra step.

Penny said...

Thanks for the tip about laurensilva.com.  I see they have Elomi bras cheaper than at Nordstrom's.   If they could only get Walcol.

Natasha Hunter said...

"I'm more of a basic primary color, natural fiber girl."

I'm wild with the colors but as far as natural fiber, me too. 

Mykeia said...

Dead at Cottenelle wet wipes!  Dead, because I keep a travel set of those in my purse at all times!

OneChele said...

Currently on sale on Macy*s also go direct to the website: http://www.wacoal-america.com

Grace said...

#TeamYouCanNotBeSerious

Andrea M said...

#TeamIWishINinjaWould

Mykeia said...

" miss me with the "I was a HS athlete" tales"...DEAD!!!!

Natasha Hunter said...

 That's $280 for one set. One. 

LOL... No Mandingo cocoa stirrin' that night! Remove and fold.

md_KG said...

I remember this show! Too funny!! LOL. The stretchmarks bit is heeeelarious indeed!

David Chase said...

"Occasion Specific"?!
I'm sorry I'm stuck right there.

slimjackson said...

I think the matching underwear thing is pure foolishness put forth by dudes that listen to T.I. ("Match ya panties with ya bra, get ya sh*t together" is the lyric I believe) and dudes that just generally aren't about much. I mean, she's gonna take them off anyway. And if she didn't plan on taking them off, you probably won't even see what she got on in the first place. There are so many other things to be concerned with. This isn't even on my top 50 list of things I'd like/expect/want from a boo or chick I wanna frolic with. 

md_KG said...

But isn't that going down a slippery road? What constitutes "special occasion time"? A date to the theater? Anytime she's in a dress and heels? Anniversaries? Birthdays? Cookouts? Wedding attendances? Baby showers? See where this could lead?

blackprofessor said...

Bingo!

Mr. Skyywalker said...

Mrs. Skyy is basic white, black, cotton joints 24/7 which made honeymoon week when she broke out the special Vicki's all the most impressive.

Save yo' battles for the important ish ninjas.

blackprofessor said...

There it is!

Rob said...

I'd even go as far as to say not Top 100

md_KG said...

"It seems like everyday there's some new edict from the men on what women
need to be doing, in order to get a man, keep a man, and not get
cheated on"


YES!! and it boggles the mind. Not only is the message so petty and unrealistic so much of the time but the people who it's coming from are not exactly Denzel or Idris Elba (and this is not to say if Denzel or Idris were making these demands it would make it any more justified).

Rob said...

My man.

Rob said...

Yes. Sir.

sol_dier said...

I wonder how many guys who do this, actually break out the silk boxers?.
How many guys pay attention to their own underwear or do they believe women are not visual as well?

As someone pointed out below, there are an awful lot of folks using song lyrics and TV shows as a blueprint for reality. #shame #fail

FreeBlackMan said...

I refuse to believe "real" men are concerned about this.

Cherelle D. Mattox said...

John I'm with you with the expensive panties but the bras not so much. For folks that are discriminated against at Auntie Vicki's we do have to go to specialty stores and pay some money for a bra that is supportive and you not jiggling every where. However, I understand where you were going.

Penny said...

Thank you!!

Penny said...

Someone put that in a song???   Obviously I am not a T.I. fan

NotPopularButTrue said...

Women always asking how to get and keep a man and then when we tell you, you don't want to hear it or are too lazy to do it.

Sasha in Stilettos said...

It has to be said - Tracey was CRAY-ZEE!

Sasha in Stilettos said...

We want to know how to get and keep men, not how to get and keep you.
Please go sit somewhere.

MCYBW said...

 I guess you buy lots of underwear then... or are you the guy that's mad about plain wrapping paper on a good present... aka the guy who get's the crappy presents when playing dirty santa... #i'mjustsaying

OneChele said...

Are you saying that women who wear matching undies get and keep men as opposed to women who don't? So you meet the finest woman in the world who makes your jaw drop, she takes off her clothes and says "Do me" but you say no because she's not matching? Really? O__o

GrownAzzMan said...

"Besides, if my underwear not matching is a deal-breaker, we need to examine why my underwear is that important to you, and why it keeps disappearing out of my house. And why does it seem you might have strap marks...just sayin'..."

There is something wrong with this child...LOL

Trey Charles said...

Damn son - really? ^^^Gamekiller^^^

Trey Charles said...

But b*tch-azz ninjas stay losing. See NotPopular above.

sol_dier said...

actually not true. 
Boys seem to keep telling us how to keep them, without us asking. 

It seems like there are a few boys out there who are so scared of not being up to scratch. So they do the thing they did in preschool. You badger people and insult them, throw things at them until they notice you.

p.s. If women aren't listening to you, date men. 
You don't seem to have any complaints about them and its 2011 no one will judge you.

Trey Charles said...

Excellent selection.

MCYBW said...

 is this what's his face from twitter again? 

CaliGirlED said...

So wearing matching underwear will help you keep a man?!! Hot Damn!!! Stop the press, stop the mofo press! We have a newsflash! Ladies here it is, the answer we've all been waiting for!...GTFOH!!! Go sit your sorry ass down somewhere!

CaliGirlED said...

Insane in the membrane!!!

CaliGirlED said...

Oh nowww you feel me! She is a NUT!!!

Trey Charles said...

Killing with the imagery

Page Bartlett said...

Deep sigh. Second post, second strike.

ASmith said...

This is great.  This was full of depth, poignant.  I really felt like you reached out and spoke directly to me, "NotPopularButTrue."  You made sense, you used facts, you gave an anecdote that drove home the point you're making.  More comments around here need to be like this.

Oh.  Wait.  ::blink,blink::

Anyway, look -- if you, NPBT (can I call you that? Good), prefer your woman to match her underwear with her bra, that's awesome.  I really hope that's something you mention to somebody on the first date because a woman needs to know ahead of time that she needs to go ahead and start saving up to do some serious bra/underwear shopping.  Gas is high, so this takes budgeting.  Oh and don't let the woman have breast bigger than a C or so... because then just the bra alone is expensive.  Gotta warn folk.

In the interim, the women who have bigger priorities than undergarments that most people won't see will be over here with the men who don't care.  This all really works out, wouldn't you agree?

However, now that we've gotten that out of the way, can I clarify: women who don't prioritize always matching their underwear aren't lazy and this tidbit won't help anyone keep a man if it's all they do.  You got any other bits of info you wanna share with us, tho?  I'm all ears out here.

ASmith said...

Using this. USING THIS.

OneChele said...

This response is such awesomeness.

ASmith said...

"baggy ass briefs with dubious stains and unfortunate fit..."

We can stop here, if y'all don't mind.

Alvin Milton said...

I'm on my commando flow today.. Get with it.

Jubilance said...

The key to getting & keeping a man involves matching my panties to my bra? Who knew?

Alvin Milton said...

I personally don't care, as long as she has had a shower and it comes off.
And you might want to wear that old stuff too because I will tear that off ya if I feel so inclined ;)

Nadette said...

you forgot to drop the mic and walk away.
::BOOM!!::

Bethany Showell said...

So it all comes down to draws...  That's the secret.  So is there a magic  "keep your man" color we should all be wearing?  Do tell, O Great Oz...

SingLikeSassy said...

This is something you are breaking up with a chick over? Really? Wow.

Sweet N Tart said...

I actually had an ex who was very specific about the undergarments he wanted me to wear. He bought them. Sometimes I wore them, sometimes I did not. I'm a woman, not a blow-up doll.

Sweet N Tart said...

OMG, I have seen these drawers. They are a serious fail.

Jazzy Jazz said...

Take. A. Seat.

CaliGirlED said...

I got it! This is someone in BougieLand with a fake profile trying to add a little fun to the day (and yesterday) right? Hahaha you got us! Ok who is this? I know no grown ass person really meant to post this! PLEASE say it was just a joke! Because if this is real, then we can assume that if your woman's undies aren't matching, she "almost deserves" to be cheated on!....Bwahahahaha, this must be a joke!!!

C Nelson said...

I'm hung up on the double standard, as you might expect. You want matching lace from me but I'm supposed to feel honored if your Jockeys have been washed recently enough to have no skid marks -- just like I'm supposed to go clean-shaven as a five-year-old and smelling of daisies and pine trees but say nothing when it's a little obvious you couldn't quite manage to shake twice and wipe from front to back. Somewhere out there is the overly naive girl for you, my friend -- at least till she grows up -- but I am not she.

Suzie S said...

Some Hispanic men (my father, my ex!) have a penchant for telling their women what to wear and how to dress. It's muy no bueno, Chele

Mina B. said...

This topic right here can get a WDDDA?, & an IwishAninjaWould from me. It's one thing for a man to state his preference in your clothing (and then commence to purchase it if you agree to wear it on occasion) but to say/tweet/infer outloud that this is somehow a requirement? A game? GTFOHWTBS

C Nelson said...

I know, right? $60-$80 apiece, and you need three, at minimum, if you want them to last any time at all -- the one you wear today, the one you wore yesterday, and the one you'll be wearing tomorrow. And handwash, and line dry, even when they're not lace, just so they don't get all stretched out.

Earthangel172 said...

"My requirements are clean, working elastic, and hole-free. Matching is a bonus, so..."

This!

 I am also #TeamMatchyMatchyButSometimesIDon'tGiveADamn

EvolvingElle said...

First of all, what type of conversation is this for grown-a** people to discuss on Twitter??? And repeatedly at that...In any event, I will tell you what I tell my co-worker who seems to be concerned with the shoes I wear.  "If you don't like what I wear, then buy me some shoes, and I'll wear them."  I say tell these men the same thing.  Why must you be concerned with my underwear??? If things go the way they're supposed to go, I won't have my foundation garments on for long anyway...

blackprofessor said...

One more and he is out!

blackprofessor said...

Who let the little boy in Bougieland?? We are known around these parts for being GROWN! Strike two!

blackprofessor said...

Nothing to add, as usual Bougieland has covered all the bases.  

Mykeia said...

Dang.  I am speechless and proud.

Mykeia said...

:-)  That is all.  Excellent comment.

GrownAzzMan said...

Any color, as long as it's red...CTFU

GrownAzzMan said...

Works for me!

Single_lif said...

^^^This right here...

Single_lif said...

I've seen quite a few boxers and briefs in my day...and believe me, had I judged the character, sexability or the worthiness of the drawers wearer...I'd still be a virgin !

Single_lif said...

I can get behind that train of  thought.  If you're gonna be sexily dressed..take it all the way.

The only downfall  would be if the man wore boring dingy drawers under his suit. #TeamWhat'sGood4TheGoose

Penny said...

Out of all the things your partner could do to you, for you, with you, and on behalf (no matter if you are only stirring cocoa or are actually in a relationship) your first priority is underwear???  Okaaaay, then.  Is that working for you?

Penny said...

When you are allergic to a bunch of stuff, lace is overrated.  A lot of the cute stuff is made of synthetic fibers.

Single_lif said...

**throws down the mic and leaves the stage**

Single_lif said...

This went straight to my Facebook...

Moabmu said...

You must have ridden the 'short bus' to school, right? There's help for your condition - it's called MATURITY -  get you some.

SassyJJ said...

And yellow!  :)

rozb said...

I was born this way, you know...

OneChele said...

I don't know whether to be proud or appalled that ya'll manged to rustle up 123 comments about underwear. 

rozb said...

So I guess she can match her undies if you keep your junk springtime fresh. And man-scaped.

ASmith said...

I think you should be something I've just coined "prapalled."  Be proud of what we've done here; be appalled that it was necessary.

rozb said...

Wow. La Perla bras are like elbow doilies on me and cannot even serve a decorative purpose. As for the panties...they can get lost in translation and cost too damn much to be slingshot across the room when the time comes. Now put that money towards some bad-A Louboutins or some Badgley Mischkas, and you have made an investment-worthy purchase.

Leo the Yardie Chick said...

Clearly some folks are doing well in this recession if their biggest crisis involves undergarments.

Leo the Yardie Chick said...

Clean (both them AND you), intact and un-stretched. That should be the extent of ones concerns regarding underwear. Unless you're shooting a spread for a catalog, why do folks care so much if they match? Man, humans are some weird-ass creatures.

CorettaJG said...

Agreed!  

"Demanding" this kind of stuff is foolishness.  Honey and all that...

CorettaJG said...

LOL.

mutemia said...

*ded
Well said

mutemia said...

If matching undies is what it takes to get and keep a man like you, I will gladly rock a mismatched set any day. 

mutemia said...

Seriously, you what's also sexy being comfortable.  Not to mention a lace bra might even show through the garment to everyone else besides yo

GammasWorld said...

Lawds I saw this convo on Twitter and couldn't believe it was actually a convo.  Y'all said it all ... carry on. 

advinjhonsean said...

These bras are just a few instruments of torture, and yet they really wanted to rock the blue sky fit to match the striped underwear. Sometimes an underwire goes wrong. Sometimes the cream stretch lace color meets a premature end in the dryer.

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