Tuesday, October 13, 2009

I’m tired of talking about it! (So I’ll just blog for a minute)

One of the joys of writing (and especially writing a blog) is that you can talk about anything and everything under the sun. Pop culture, current events, politics, relationships, money, family, music, movies you name it… on any given day I blog it if the mood strikes me. However, when you spend a lot of time reading blogs, watching news, checking your email, Facebook and Twitter – you can sometimes hit information overload. And lately, I find myself developing a bit of burnout about some topics that I feel are over-played right now. So much so that I'm going to get the last of my thoughts out about them now and put them to rest for a minute or two.

  1. Hair – With the arrival of the docu-comedy; Good Hair, Chris Rock brings to light all the drama, nonsense, pain and good time that is the Afican-American female hair experience. Personally, I think this topic has been discussed to death, especially in the blogosphere. You have women who are very pro-natural (non processed), women who are anti-weave, pro-perm, etc. Fellas weigh in on long, short, synthetic, afro – eeek! I'm over it. As long as your hair is clean and suits your face and personality, I say go for it. I was stunned when women were insulted by Chris' documentary claiming it degraded women and gave away too many of "our secrets" to white women. Someone stop the madness please. It's not like we females of African descendants have any secret sauce about how we get our hair to look however it looks. Personally, I wasn't aware that anybody gave that much of a damn what we did to make it do what it do. Long story short: get over it, put you on some cute earrings on and rock it.

  2. Black Men vs Black Women – a ton of posts and discussion and Twittering about whether Black men and Black women hate each other, can't get along, don't date, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. I personally have no beef with Black men as a group. One or two ya'll I have to give a stern side-eye to but beyond that, I'm good. About twice a week, some Black Bloggers Fight Club of Mars vs. Venus Twitter Battle breaks off. It always ends with one party accusing the other one of hating on their own race and vowing to verbally eviscerate the other on their blog. Is it that crucial? It's really not. The battle of strong black man vs. independent black woman won't be won in the social media arena. Your 140 character tweet is not going ot make anybody see the light. Long story short: take it offline and find something nice to say (it's a start).

  3. Celebrities – I don't care what Mike Tyson said to Oprah, why Lamar Odom married one of those random Kardashian chicks or who A-Rod may be shacked up with. None of those people keep the lights on up in here and I am a little weary of celeb-hungry culture that has decided that Jon and Kate's divorce settlement is important enough for mainstream news… Le Sigh. Let me knock out a few high(low) lights right quick so we can move on: I don't know what the latest in the Amna Nicole wrongful death suit is and yes, Roman Polanski belongs up under the jail. Usher's new song is terrible, no I don't think Jamie Foxx is an authority on anything other than entertainment and sure, I don't see any reason why Kanye can't back from his pilgrimage to India a better person. Long Story Short: I'm going head in the sand on all celebrity news for a while.

  4. The Obama Hateration- It's gotten so bad that if a news anchor even mentions Sarah Palin, Rush Limbaugh or Glenn Beck – I change the channel. Whenever the latest Wingnut of the Week stops by CNN or MSNBC, I turn it off. It's not that I'm super sensitive to criticism of Prez 44, it's that I no longer care to listen long enough to see if the criticism is valid or a hate-laced rant. My tolerance threshold is only puddle-deep at this time. Poor Obama wins one of the most prestigious prizes known to man and still people found something (many things) critical to say. The arguments against his policies aren't even based in policy anymore but a philosophy that they more they tear him down, the higher they can elevate themselves. I'm really interested to see how that's going to work out in 2010 and 2012. Long story short: Until he does something to personally offend me; I'm going to continuing praying and cheering for the continued health and success of Barack H. Obama.

What's a topic you like to see retired from media (social, mainstream, blogosphere) at least for a minute or two? What's a topic you wish was getting more air/blog time?

22 comments:

true2me said...

Hey OneChele, Girl I feel you. Nothing stirs up talking more than Black Male and Female relationships or lack thereof. What or who is wifey material (again..sooo elementary). And self hatred cause I style my hair 1000 different ways. I'm sooo over most of that..although I will still state my opinion.

Don't forget the 25 year olds who like to give life advice. I touched on that in twitter. Like seriously..you have barely lived but you feel like an authority on life. Like you have lived enough to tell women how to act and what not. My favorite statements by these youngins are "well men are going to think xyz of you"..I'm too old to give a darn what any man thinks of my behavior. If ya don't like it..step.

Thanks for this post hun

True

Jayme C said...

This is a good one, sometimes discussion are ineffective when both sides are so weary that they've shutdown. I think we've reached full saturation on about all the topics listed above.

Also, I know you don't want to turn this into a relationship blog, but your best voice comes out when you are talking about the fun stories that occur when men and women try to get together. :)

Reads4Pleasure said...

Co-sign

DatdudeinCali said...

You know you love stirring up that man-woman yin-yang, girl! At least you come with a voice of reason.

Diamond Life said...

Whew! Thank you, thank you, thank you! What is the fascination with black hair care? As for this site, I love the Bougie tales.

Tiffany Nicole said...

I am so dayum tired of hearing about Jon & Kate and they eight kids! I don't care that he took $200,000 out of their account and she don't know how she gonna live. I don't care that she got a free tummy tuck and he got free hair plugs! Or he gotta pyt and showed up at his daughter's party and forgot how to spell her name (that is bogus though!!) Stop the madness!!

Now I am very interested in Chris Rock's docucomdey because Black hair is a billion dollar industry that we as Black people don't profit from....

Sarah said...

Yep, I call it negativity overload. Been feeling a bit of it myself lately which is why I like visiting this site because even
when you are clearly peeved, you managed to say it in a way that makes me smile. :) Love those stories about your
date disasters although I'm sure it isn't much fun to experience them. I don't honestly understand why it seems almost
nobody feels like they can say something good about the President. I support him. I'm expecting him to do his job which
I have no doubt he will do. I've got my own stuff to sort. It was good to hear in your last post that you had a good date
for a change. I hope you enjoy your day.

daisy said...

I'm going to see good hair but I'll be happy when we don't discuss it all day everyday. There is such a thing as oversharing!
I never understood the whole Jon and Kate phenom and I worry about those kids when both parents appear real crazy!

OneChele said...

True - I'm not done with the 25-y/o advice givers yet. I feel another rant building ;)

OneChele said...

Le Sigh to all of ya'll with the relationship posts. I'll think on it.

BB Waite said...

I can not understand any of the Kardashian acclaim - what are they famous for? Sleeping with famous guys? I've given up expecting rational thought on the President. People either love him or think he's the devil. I fall in between but don't have the oxygen to argue about it. Good post.

As for this blog, your story telling is the best. though I love the rants too.

Think Like Riley said...

I know I talk up some bullshiggity but your relationship posts hit the spot. Different but dope. Keep em coming

Bailey Q said...

co-sign times four! I get most of my news from the net so I can pick and choose what I pay attention to. I'm sure you're tired of hearing about it but when is the next Relationship week? ha!

Georgiana said...

I think you touched on everything that I just wished they would STFU about. Most importantly, the constant dogging out of Barack Obama. I don't think  the criticisms go way beyond his policies it is about COLOR. People are pissed there is a Black Man in office and they will do what is necessary to destroy this man. This past election has brought out all of the racist -including the closet racist -people that you would never thought were racist. I find is shameful.  However I am going to see the positive in this by saying that they are handing 2012 and 2016 to us. 

troy said...

Georgiana - this is true. the WH doesn't want to call it racism for politically correct reasons but that's all you can attribute this level of hate to. 

OneChele - you hit the nail on head with this one. I come to your blog for a bit of intellect every day.

Apple Berry in MIA said...

I think you told me in a tweet that you were going to do a "things to love about black men" post... it might be time!

MochaMuffin said...

Yes please! the Obama hate is played out, can't they see that they are really alienating people with all the attacks?

Leon Rogers said...

I'm tired of talking about Pres. Obama's Nobel Peace Prize. Having to explain the concept of award giving has given me fatigue. He won and that's that. Get over it.

Diana said...

But see you are using logic.. that's not allowed! :)
Great post, chele

All Honey said...

I would like a week of straight news. No celebs, no opinions, just here's what happened, next. (Wishful thinking)

Mr. Skyywalker said...

Please let one more co-worker ask me about Good Hair... one more!

LikeLena said...

Not sure how Jon & Kate got famous anyway? For having too many kids? Agree with your points. Poor Prez must just turn the TV off at some point.

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